dont like that approach since mental illnesses are typically underdiagnosed rather than overdiagnosed. If someone says they have adhd they do until proven otherwise.
yeah there are only two reasons why someone doesn't do something and it's because they can't or the don't wanna. If they want to do something but don't it's because they can't and some pedestrian advice like "Just think how much nicer it will feel after you're done" is not gonna help.
not necessarily more, but more intense. Like it's borderline physically painful sometimes to force myself to do something. It feels like I'm being very cruel to myself for no good reason, its just a dishwasher after all
the problems sound similar to "what everyone has" but they arent the same
Yes everyone struggles motivating themselves to do chores but it's not the same when you have adhd.
Yes everyone has trouble concentrating during a boring lecture/lesson but its not the same when you have adhd.
Yes everyone has the urge to buy stuff they don't need, but its not the same when you have adhd.
that doesn't really help your point seeing as we are talking about a fascist presiding over one of those colonies that was part of the alliance against Hitler.
CEO's get to decide what to do with the money the company earns. The workers dont.
I use mailbox.org its pretty sweet
Yes, yes it is. I've tried to explain to you at length how it's SA even in context (the "why is he making excuses" argument) and how it's harmful even if there was context redeeming it (the "it's visible to people without such context" argument).
I do not understand why you're so adamant about defending cartoon SA and the harm it can cause.
This is SA and all my arguments are made in the original thread which OP conveniently never links: CW for SA and SA apology https://hexbear.net/post/3706906
nah fuck off, these kinds of posts do trigger SA related trauma and keeping them up after it has been pointed out how they cause harm is risking harm to others because ?? don't even know why OP was so adamant about defending this tbh
I'm not an admin of any instance don't know why you think I am.
You stated multiple times that you wanted to shoot him because he used the excuse that "it's just a game".
And that was just a comment.
going on a multiple paragraph rant that is more about dunking on someone and venting than actually trying to inform isn't a good look for an admin.
I wasn't dunking on him but trying to explain my viewpoints to him. I didn't make fun of him, I wasn't sarcastic or smug, I stated my opinion. Rather plainly and bluntly but there was no dunking involved.
I can't read their full responses that you deleted, but what you quoted from them reads like the kind of scared "stop yelling at me I don't understand what I did wrong please don't hit me" responses I gave to my mother while she was busy giving me reasons for therapy.
The quotes are pretty much entirely what was written. Which was SA apologia. My comments are nothing but trying to explain what was wrong. Also I didn't delete anything. I'm neither a mod nor an admin. I am just a normal user.
If you're gonna post about me at least tag me coward.
Here's the thread for context. https://hexbear.net/post/3706906
And someone claimed it have SA(Sexual Assualt) From Hexbear Ofcourse.
Here's my claim boiled down:
Shane’s reaction betrays he acted without establishing consent, aka committed SA. There is no other reason for him to feel guilty and make excuses other than trying to soften any backlash his action might’ve caused. Even if there was explicit consent along the lines of “hold me tight and kiss me” he is unaware of it and decided to act regardless. Nothing can excuse this. This is textbook SA.
The framing of the comic makes an act of SA look cute and romantic.
You have posted a comic romanticizing r*pe.
When pointed out that this causes harm to real-life people you still tried to defend it and decided to do nothing to mitigate the harm to these people.
You were unable to say why it was ok to leave a post up despite it being able to cause harm to people with PTSD.
You kept enganging in disgusting SA apologetics "oh he's just a depressed alcoholic", "oh but she wanted it", "oh but why does she kiss him back"
I did not ask you to or insinuate that you should kill yourself. Complete lie.
My bad on not reading the "this game is woke lol" comment as sarcastic.
One more because I want you to really stew on this:
Shane's reaction betrays he acted without establishing consent, aka committed SA. There is no other reason for him to feel guilty and make excuses other than trying to soften any backlash his action might've caused. Even if there was explicit consent along the lines of "hold me tight and kiss me" he is unaware of it and decided to act regardless. Nothing can excuse this. This is textbook SA.
The framing of the comic makes an act of SA look cute and romantic.
You have posted a comic romanticizing r*pe.
When pointed out that this causes harm to real-life people you still tried to defend it and decided to do nothing to mitigate the harm to these people.
I know it can trigger someone because it have no context.
This is harmful. A person with PTSD getting triggered is harmful.
Edit: also again. No consent=SA. No excuses. No "oh but she loves him", "oh he is a sad depressed alcoholic" or the particularly vile, odious, disgusting "oh but she kissed him back". No. Excuses.
Oh I should've read further. Your an anti-woke reactionary and post vile SA apologia. I hope you die soon.