Lost_My_Mind @ Lost_My_Mind @lemmy.world

Posts

143

Comments

7,234

Joined

12 mo. ago

Moderating

---

obnoxious voice

HEY! IT COULD HAPPEN!!! YOU DON'T KNOW!!! SHUT UP!!!

/s

I don't think I'm seeing the value here. Why would you want to track him?

This makes me feel old. I came from a time when schools didn't have public shootings, and so bullying was more accepted. I CANNOT imagine for the life of me, even if it had been possible on Windows 95, anyone willingly sharing the fact that they do this.

If ANYONE in 6th grade showed off something this pathetic, they would be on the ground clutching their gut, which had just been punched so hard that they are struggling to breathe.

The end result is that people understood common sense that it's not admirable to be pathetic and weak. So people would show off themselves getting better and stronger.

I feel like all that bullying 30 years ago made a lot of kids better for it, because it forced them to at least ATTEMPT to stand up to me. Even if I laid them out in the end, they learned not to be a loser.

And now, we've had decades of not encouraging bullys. THIS is the end result. THIS is what these insecure cowards turn into.

Now I've never seen OP, but I'm willing to bet he COULD be going out and getting pussy for real. It's not hard. I am not a good looking guy. I'm not rich. I don't have a sports car. I don't have a mansion. What I do have is a confidence in myself instilled into me at a young age that I can do it. Where "it" is an interchangable variable that applies to most things.

You know how I got that confidence? By being a fat pathetic loser 8 year old who got bullied. Until I hauled off and just decked my bully. Who was bigger than me. You get a reputation as the kid who knocked out the kid 2 grades above him. Then you start believing in yourself. You start pushing your own limits. You start kicking your own ass. You toughen up. You take on the world, and win. And women see that confidence. The VAST majority of women are attracted to a man who knows he can do it.

You know how I got my first girlfriend? I called the girl I had a crush on. Straight up asked her out.

She said no. I'm not her type. Fair enough. Because if a woman says no, there's no sense in insisting, or getting mad.

So I called the other girl I had been talking to. I said "You wanna go out?" And she said yes. We dated for 4 years until I learned she was a narcassistic psychopath who trapped our cats in the closet all day while I was at work, after dropping them in freezing cold water. I was not ok with that. You hurt animals, and you're a damn monster. BUT! It was a relationship that failed not because I was weak and keeled over. It was because I happened to choose the wrong girl based on information I didn't have. It happens. Not every person on this planet is a good person. Her parents failed her in showing what empathy is, and how to be a strong woman who can handle life. So, that was a dud, but life moves on.

Now rewind that story. Imagine I just stayed in my moms basement, and ate cheetos, and tried playing video games all day in a dark room crying that woman wants me. Do you think I'd EVER get a girl? Her or otherwise? Fuck no! If that version of me existed, afraid to be bold, afraid to take life by the balls, I'd be some lonely dweeb 40 year old virgin without the humor of Steve Carell.

So to OP, I'll say this. I see life has failed you in a spectacular way. You should have been beaten as a kid by other kids, and weren't. You should have had the chance to beat your bullys, but couldn't because of school policy and anti-bully culture. Life failed you. You have no confidence. That needs to change. Go look in the mirror. Take a good long look. Do you enjoy seeing the person who stares back? No. We see you the same way you're seeing you. So you need to change that. Nut up, and go join a gym. Take a boxing class. Get hit in the face. Take it. Again. Again. Hit back. Be the person who's burried underneith all your insecurities. Fuck those insecurities. You have no room in your life for insecurities. Work out until you hurt. Jelly legs where you're so tender that walking is hard. Jelly arms. Do it again tomorrow. And the next day. Do it about 4 days a week for 6 hours.

Be better. Improve yourself. You're lonely and insecure? Yeah, that's because women see you being gross and not worth talking to. BE worth talking to. It only gets harder as you get older. You can spend your 20s sleeping around, but you better find somebody by 30. Because after that, it is slim pickings unless you want a girl with like 5 kids by 3 different men but she's insisting you go bareback. There's a reason she collects so many checks. You wanna be next?

Or do you want to avoid that now by being a better you?

Because this? This is sad.

That makes sense.

I'm more confused by the idea of a admitting trump voter being on Lemmy.

I mean, I'm not saying Lemmy is an isolationist platform that forbids them. But at the same time, it's kind of like going to a house party attended almost exclusively by people who hate you.

Oh, that's fine. It's just black people. Nobody cares about them, right?

I mean what's wrong with giving a cop a gun, and just waiting out the public backlash? He's still getting paid, so don't worry about the system changing. He'll just get a nice little paid vacation, and in two weeks you'll forget all about him because trump will make some new attention grabbing headline, like introducing a new ICE task force that targets these criminals before they even grow up. Arrest them as toddlers, I say.

Now, if you've made it this far you're feeling one of two ways. You're either angry at everything I've said. In which case congradulations, you feel empathy and aren't racist.

If on the other hand you found yourself nodding along, and agreeing with me, please take this moment to book yourself a skydiving lession. Don't bother to pay for the parachute. You won't be needing that you human garbage waste of skin. You know toasters and bathtubs are your best friend!

Wait....I haven't been following the story. Why is him buying Instagram a bad thing legally?

The guy who burned down his own house is named James Brown.

What are you not getting?

Eggs in a basket??? Jesus!!! How much is THAT going to cost???

Greenland may be on that list soon. I'm not saying I like it, I'm just saying thats the direction we're going.

......is it?

Did.....did you not even glance at the article summery?

We get it, you still wear JNCO jeans.

I never even thought of that.

I like Animal Crossing and Minecraft.

Perhaps I should try Terreria?

ITT: I learn that despite never even attempting to fix a car ever in my life, I'm a natural mechanic.

There's an episode of How I Met Your Mother where Marshal tells stories that happened to him. Then the rest of the gang try to guess if he was a kid or if he was an adult but drunk in that story.

Your story would be great for that game. Maybe you were a toddler. Maybe this was how you ruined Thanksgiving 2024.

Maybe he intentionally sets fires because it makes him feel good, and he knew that it would. He feels nice, like sugar and spice!

I can't use the bathroom unassisted either. Big shout out to gravity for being the force that allows poop to come out of my butt, and not float around the house until you open a window, and it just happens to float outside.

But then outside there would be just a mess of poop and other debris just floating around the city all willynilly.

Boy I sure do love the combination of indoor plumbing and gravity. It's been at least 40 years since I held a human turd. If I ever did. I don't know. I would have been a toddler, and don't remember.

He owns his own business doing what he loves,

No I didn't.

And yes, I am disappointed, but I always am with roles that get replaced.