What is your kink that you will likely never get to try?
What is your kink that you will likely never get to try?
What is your kink that you will likely never get to try?
Tentacle porn where I'm the one with tentacles.
how many? you want to be an octopus? a dectopus? a hexapus?
Probably between 4 and 8. Too many and it would be too much to keep track of.
I've always wanted to be blindfolded and sort of "passed around" at a party giving oral to women. Kind of like a freeuse thing
An all you can eat buffet
Getting fucked strapped down to a guillotine (with a line of guys especially) or with a gun to my head.
Snuff is really difficult for people to understand. I like being alive, but the idea that a guy could treat me as completely disposable is exhilarating. I’m fairly extreme on the masochism/submissive side of things, the challenge is always finding guys who are safe with those extreme kinks.
I’ve got a regular I had a really great time with recently - put a belt around my neck before he walked in, let him talk about how far he could go (while not actually pulling hard - breath play is always dangerous..)
Being passed around at a party and thrown into a dumpster afterwords is another of those “probably impossible” fantasies.
I've heard of setups where a guillotine has been constructed with a bar across the bottom behind where the neck would go so that when the moment is right, i assume when one or both of you are cumming, your partner can pull the lever and you get a nice satisfying thud as the blade hits the bottom.
Danger in general is sexy time spice, my gf is VERY into hard choking. We've had to tone it down a bit as we've become more experienced with it though
I talked to a guy online once about a similar set up - I’m honestly considering taking a furniture making class to make my dreams come true there. Or convincing one of my regulars to make one for me.
Hard choking is something I’ve done - I got scared when my ex choked someone else unconscious on accident and almost killed them, so I’m a little reluctant to go for it now. It does feel so amazing though - the only time I’ve ever came from penetration was being strangled and beat on a fucking machine. I know that I would totally let a guy off me in the moment because it’s like nothing else 😅
I like to image I'm a girl
Don't let your dreams be dreams, girl!
if you're in a firly liberal place you can be
Basement slave, where I'm chained in a basement and be whipped, spanked, slapped and lightly beated etc.
Ah, the fantasy that made me realise i was into kink.
Except i was the one keeping the slave, not the one being the slave
My wife dominates me on occasion, I’m kinda half into it. But I would like her to force me to serve a trans domme. In her presence.
does she know about this?
Maybe she could use a strapon on you
Haha I can’t believe I admitted to this 😂 clean forgot that I posted that comment. Was on the stripes.
I know this is very vanilla (which I am not) but a threesome probably.
I have plenty of kinks that I have tried because I talk to my partner openly and they are very supportive and open minded.
But I only enjoy sex with people that I have a deep connection with and I am strictly monogamous (nothing against other options, just too mentally draining for me to love multiple people) so I can't really see a situation where I would have two people I have a deep connection with that is sexual, or a partner and a friend I am willing to have sex with, since I don't have many friends and I wouldn't want to complicate things by adding sex.
One possible option might be if my partner had a someone they really wanted to add and I would go with it, but I doubt I would enjoy it too much, probably just do it for my partner.
Maybe you should get a couples profile on fet. if you can build a friendship with someone or a group of people with a view to maybe eventually including them in your activities with your partner then you don't run the risk of ruining an existing friendship.
Providing value to a community that I value. Either that or having enough money and time to be happy. That would really get me off.
i'm imagining you trying not to jizz while ringing a tea set up for some old lady in a charity shop
Thank you, come again!
Small opportunities to volunteer make a big difference — even just picking up the litter on your block.
Have a bunch of sexual slaves at my disposal. Have used it as inspiration and as fantasy many times, but I think in real life I would have a hard time being dominant. Also in our relationship we are both quite dominant and neither would ever be the sub, so that won't be doable even in the sense of just one slave, let alone a few.
Maybe you should find a sub to share.
I like the idea of a slave/slaves but i imagine it would end up being a lot of work
Yeah, I've considered the idea of looking for a sub for both of us, but it has never really been a priority and my partner is quite vanilla all things considered, but at least we agree that if it would ever happen it would be a woman as she is at least sexually bi.
While I consider myself more on the dom side, I've never experienced much on it so it feels daunting to have someone trust you that way but also depend on you. It is a mental barrier that would block me I'm afraid if I tried it. And as you put it, also a lot of work. For the moment, I'm OK leaving it as fantasy, not all fantasies need to be achieved :)
Pegging a man
You'd be surprised at how more guys are getting open to the idea of at least giving it a go, if not making it a commonplace activity
I love this and support it 100%
can you sell the idea to my gf please?
I'd let you if you can somehow pull it off with only your natural equipment (pussy)
@Earthtopidge should be easily achievable, and oh so satisfying once you're plowing him, he's going wild for it, and you're all power crazed as you see the effect you're having on him!
Eating pussy while fucking in a MFF threesome. I'm married, so it'll probably never happen lol.
You never know. My wife and I have been married for 20 years, and we get up to some wild shit. Just depends on the relationship. I wouldn't have thought we would even five years ago, but we have firm boundaries, and the timing was right to start branching out.
Might never happen. Might turn out that she takes mushrooms once and decides she wants to know what it's like. Happened to me, lol.
I promise I mean this sincerely, zero sarcasm, but a 20 year marriage where you're doing mushrooms together and still have fulfilling new sexual experiences sounds like an ideal modern love story. Sounds like you've got it good mate, good on you and yours.
Oh, the mushrooms should've done something by now, if that'd be her thing! We just tripped over and a half week ago. She's also demisexual, so that'd make things a bit harder for her. But fingers crossed!!
Kn a similar vein I want to try double vaginal penetration. I imagine you'd be getting pleasure from the other penis rubbing against yours and the vagina.
My partner is very open to trying many things. And has talked about trying mmf, but it is also a tight fit. Just me is a struggle to get in without discomfort sometimes
I have done DP, not DVP, and I like it when the guy in my ass is still, the one in my pussy moving, and I will tell you, the guy in my ass has cum from that. They can feel it! Maybe try that? I haven't wanted to try DVP, the DP is difficult enough to set up, and think it would just hurt, and if the guys wrapped, too much chance of condom failure.
Maybe explore with some progressively larger toys before jumping in at the deep end with another dude
Maybe your wife is secretly bi?
Being a lifestyle sub/slave for someone.
I did it for a while. It felt very good at the time, but it quickly escalated into something dangerous and abusive. Some of the most exciting and erotic experiences of my life - being a footstool, sleeping in a dog cage, wearing a permanently locked collar, having a contract, being on the verge of orgasm from just being made to mop floors and follow rules - but tied to an absolutely brutal “drop” when the whole thing was abruptly ended. Realizing that the person I served had always deeply hated me and was actually exploiting me was a hella of a mind fuck.
It still deeply appeals to me, but the fallout when it ended was very difficult. Going from a few years of that mind state rapidly back to “normal” life was extraordinarily difficult, and there wasn’t really a “script” for getting my life back on track afterwards.
I'm sorry you went through that. Thank you for sharing.
I want to feel attractive to somebody I'm attracted to. The hair-twirling, blushing, lip-biting, giggling, restless-foot kind of attraction. It can feel euphoric just talking and flirting with a woman, even when there's no romantic prospect, so I think that would be a stratospheric experience. But I was never that kind of attractive even when I was young, and now I'm old, so I doubt it'll ever happen.
if you know what it feels like to flirt with a women then you almost certainly have been seen as attractive in the eyes of the people you were flirting with.
You might not see it when you look in the mirror but beauty is in the eye of the beholder
Yes and no. People flirt for many reasons, not always with sexual intent. One recent example that I can think of is the server when I went out to breakfast with friends recently. It's partly her personality (we'd met before), and partly doing good customer service. But I get what you mean. Thank you for the affirmation!
You are a guy? And straight? I'm a lady, and honestly it's not looks, it's a look, if that makes sense - you only have to be acceptable looking to be attractive like that. The only guys that have got me flirty that way, none of them were particularly good looking. It was the way they looked at me that set it off. I knew it didn't need to go anywhere, it's just fun sometimes.
I do understand why you would want that, it's very validating feeling. Even though superficial and light.
Yes, I'm a straight, cis man. It makes sense, and I've heard the similar sentiment, "just be confident," before. I believe it, and it's not surprising to me that I wouldn't have "the look." (Long story.) I'd love to hear specifics, because nobody has been able to explain what being confident actually means in practice, and I've spent more than 25 years now trying to figure it out. I've lost count of the number of times I've thought I'd cracked the code, only to fail again.
Honestly, though, based on my experience I feel that physical looks still have a lot to do with it.
For me it's watching my partner being dominated by other guys
Getting a bj from something that would actually love to eat me (Cannibalism is an ick, I obviously won't touch animals, and there's no aliens/monster people irl. Though I might accept a BJ of that nature from some very weird person anyway)
I'm really into BL anime. The guys have such smooth skin and cute mannerisms and live in picturesque settings. I could move to Japan but everybody would be 3D.
At least culturally it might be stimulating
I took a trip and it definitely was, but only the girls act like anime characters over there. Japanese men in general seem to take things too seriously, but my sexuality at the time was just semi-out bi, so I didn't see much of the gay community. Apparently, one thing you don't do is sit next to someone in the water at a regular (non-gay) bathhouse.