Choking during sex: many young people mistakenly believe it can be done safely, our study shows.
Around half of young Australians have engaged in strangulation during sex. But it’s dangerous, even with consent.
And spanking can lead to a broken back and permanent paralysis if applied with extreme force such as beginning the blow by jumping off the second floor landing.
Suspiciously specific
I blame booktok
When sex starts turning into bedroom mma. Tap out babe! Tap out!
It is weird and unhealthy full stop. Porn normalizes all kinds of bullshit and this is no different. Giving your partner brain damage is not sexy, it is stupid.
I've choked a lot of partners, and many of the women who have asked me to do it were middle aged women with kids who didn't watch porn at all. They like the power dynamic, the feeling of being controlled, the (somewhat) restricted breathing, and the impression that their partner (me) is strong and dominant. Most of the time, I'm not even really choking them- I generally hook my hand under her jaw, lock my fingers in a c-shape, and press up, rather than in. It looks and sort of feels like you're being choked, but isn't.
I've done consensual non-consent, I've whipped, flogged, and paddled women, I've pushed them into walls and dragged them to the bed by their hair. I've slapped them in the face, breasts, and groin. All because I was asked. It is often an incredible, intense, and pleasurable experience for the women I'm with. And because I find their pleasure arousing and deeply satisfying, it's pleasurable and intense for me.
Very few of them watched a lot of porn, and when they did, it was often the elegant and romantic sort of videos, rather than the brutal BDSM that you're imagining.
You're judging people for their sexual proclivities and suggesting that they've been brainwashed by porn, but you very clearly don't understand the people you're looking down on.
Hey, I get it. You have a lot of unhealthy abusive relationships where you like to give people brain damage. No one is forcing you to do this and you can always stop at any time. I think you are beginning to realize this.
I have no issues with you playing like you are choking people. Obviously it is weird, but that is okay. Actually cutting off blood supply causes brain damage end of story.
I would also carefully consider the nonconsensual statement. This is a violation of someones autonomy and rights and I suspect you have probably raped women in the past. This is really dark and I hope you can see this. At any rate, don't hurt people. Cheers!
Why would anyone do that?
Cuz horny. It's fun with the right partner
A proper carotid choke leading into and through an orgasm leads to a powerful experience.
There is a reason so many people die during autoerotic asphyxiation.
Never use a device to construct your neck, like a rope, only use your or a trusted and experienced partner's hand so pressure can be removed before losing consciousness. You can't remove a noose around your own neck when you pass out, which leads to you having the best orgasm you will ever have.
Oh, ok, thanks for the explanation
Probably because it feels incredible. I love the feeling of my spouse's hand gently restricting my airway during sex. It's worth noting that she's never ever cut off my air supply or caused bruising - and that we communicate really well - but I can easily imagine how someone would get carried away.
Yeah, exactly. It's perfectly possible to do it safely.
If I had to guess, they're probably copying what they see in easy to access for all ages online porn.
