My dating life has literally evaporated in the last 15 years. Not a single date or even a match. Guys, be warned, getting married totally kills your dating game.
I've been in a relationship for the past 15 years... So probably not the target demographic for this question?
But for what it's worth, listening to single friends over the years, it sure sounds harder than it was back when I was dating (the online aspect of everything seems like loads of extra work).
Ten years ago I was ten years younger, which changes things. I think nearly any individual will say that it was better ten years ago because they were younger and hotter and hornier and had fewer aches and pains and responsibilities.
However, I will say that Lots of straight men have become actively red pilled, repellent, and unfuckable. I can get hookups, but I want to know I'm not inadvertently participating in a maga orgasm, so they need more vetting, which a lot of guys are unwilling to do (you know, the "u tryna fuk" as an opening gambit types).