He's trying

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weaponised incompetence moment
- sometimes it's not weaponised and I'm just an idiot
Its not a bad gift, its a funny hat that rules

That's oddly endearing, and SOOOOOOO much better than what a lot of people are subjected to.

Dare I call it, wholesome, even. Not ideal, but homie is trying there.

Yea I was like "that's adorable"

Don't even think he's confused, that's a quintessential man gift there

I am legitimately confused on how thats not a great gift.
- Because being a guy doesn't necessarily mean you want something this horrendously tacky

Dudes, and this wont be reported on most mainstream media outlets, rock

This is true, many are saying it these days

Catch me in that hat with my I paused my game to be here shirt and cargo shorts at the anime convention to get a heroic dose of gender euphoria

If i was transitioning to male this gift would crush so hard

ok but that hat fucking rocks

Who among us has not been in the checkout line of a Kwik-Stop and felt a sudden sense of pride and appreciation for our girlfriend's trans son

This is really fucking cute. I like this, it's comical in a nice kind of way.

I'd wear it, dudes have to rock after all

I gotta say, I don't have much insight into the trans experience at all but this tacky gift really does seem sweet. The intention of the gift is more important than the gift itself

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I can absolutely see myself buying a gift like that for a trans guy, not because I think it's a good gift, but because it's such a comically stereotypical Man Hat, and it kinda rocks with how over-the-top tacky it is. It works as both a genuine affirmation and a funny gag gift.

Even if it isnt the dude is trying to relate which is based

It's the thought that counts. Trans people barely even understand gender, mum's boyfriend is trying and that's what matters.

Trans people barely even understand gender

I'm curious if you meant to say non-trans. I'm not saying I disagree, this just isn't a take I see a lot as it currently is written.
- I meant it more like "Trans people barely even understand gender (even though they think about it more than most people), how is mum's boyfriend supposed to understand it"