This is the right decision. I did not want to add an opinion and leave the majority decide, but the issue is downvotes are not used correctly.
without acceptance, there can't be equality
without a conversation, there can't be acceptance
without awareness, there can't be a conversation
without activists, there can't be awareness
right now, there is a severe lack of acceptance, and the conversation is toxic.
unfortunately this is a necessity, if it wasn't needed, it wouldn't be done.
That's my husband, remember hearing over teams many times "Not you, we don't need a scorched earth" when trying to find a lead to resolve an issue lol.
I am not volunteering the position, but I am throwing myself in as a tech advisor, or part time helper if it is needed.
My brain is better than my body lol.
Only with partners, and I think it's awesome!
I just enjoy watching him stroke, and he enjoys watching me.
Find more men? Honestly, if its FFM, it's about the women, and the male is their toy. Assuming your the male, do as your asked. They can go for hours, you can't.
I'm happy to help some of the niche ones I intend to be a part of.
At least the first 2, but given that it seems a bit quiet happy to take on the 5.
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Both me and my husband are basically, eyes face, and for me bum, for him, boobs.
Nothing else for me I think, I like deep voices, but more so, I find high pitched and scratchy voices a turn off.
But then him, being outwitted. He is stupidly smart, he has a PhD and 2 Masters, and finds someone outwitting him or outsmarting him actually a turn on. It's weird. The odd times I do it, prove him wrong, he almost instantly jumps my bones, he can't control himself.
Yeah, if its not your thing, then it's not, don't try forcing things, that never works out well.
But a Bi MMF threesome is a great way to ease into it if your curious, I'm guilty of helping a few guys with their first times experimenting with men.
And I'll be honest, some it just isn't for, most have loved it. But if your nervous, you will clench, then pain, then no fun, so like you said, you loosen up first, not just physically but mentally.
Few drinks, play with her, get turned on, then if you want to be bottom, let him start on you while your on her, (just touching, fingers, so on). slow, go slow. It's not a race. You will know when your ready for more, then he can taken the next step.
Most MMF threesomes we have are about 4 hour sessions, yet 1 on 1 sex is what, 15 min, an hour max?
I don't enjoy condoms.
I also find circumcised to be like a half-condom feel.
The way the skin slides and moves feels amazing, and all that is lost with condoms.
Also, no lube is needed. Lube reduces the pleasure so much, but need it for circumcised and condoms.
But having said that, except in very exceptional circumstances, always use a condom when playing with others. Safety is first.
This is not easy to describe.
Anal feels more full, which I like, but the pleasure is not as good, and the longer it goes on, the more quickly the pleasure dies off.
Not to mention the preparation, the time, and so on.
I like Anal, but really, if I got it once for every 20 times I get vaginal I am satisfied.
DP, one in both, just amplified everything. The good and the bad.
Positions are awkward, it takes time, but the full feeling is even better, and the pleasure of both holes is even better.
If Oral is 10/10, Vaginal is 8/10, Anal is 5/10, and DP is 11/10. But DP with toys is nowhere near the same, in fact I don't like it.
My husband says Anal is so hard to get in, and then its like 1 tight ring, whereas Vaginal has stuff everywhere going on. He likes both, but prefers Vaginal. Those "everything going on" descriptions vs 1 ring, is kind of the same for me, there is just so much more being pleasured with Vaginal.
As for you receiving Anal, the real penis feels so different, and so much better than toys, I do recommend trying the real thing at least once!
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