Yuuuup he was a shit person iirc. Idk anything specific, or if he tried anything, but he gave major creep vibes. and he would kinda bully the girls in his class and treat the boys with much more respect.
Carry it with you everywhere lyube, just to be safe ^^
(cw misogyny) Not AP, but my gov/econ teacher went on a long rant one class about how he *knows* the reason misogyny exists,
and that it was because women give birth, and that because of that their bodies need to be biologically weaker and need to be taken care of so they can take care of babies, and so it was only natural that men were protectors, and thus it was only natural that men get upset with women when they provide and then only get more mouths in return. He wasnt explicitly saying women deserved misogyny, but his whole rant was steeped in that attitude and justified with bioessentialism.
Very normal thoughts he had 
Thats pretty fucking rude of them 
Im sorry hufsa/mörkö traumatised you though! Dont worry, she cant hurt you 
but if youre worried just carry around a shell in the shape of a heart. Worst case scenario you give hufsa a gift and she goes away, best case you have a cute shell with you everywhere you go ^^
Depends on if you are doing informed consent or not. I think planned parenthood does informed consent tho, so yeah make an appointment and explain to the therapist/counselor that youre trans, what you want from transition ^^
If its not informed consent youll need a diagnosis, which is really frustrating.
Aww hufsa is so sweet tho, shes just doing her thing, and wants the pretty shell 
I want to live in mummidal in a little cottage and go on simple cozy adventures, go fishing with mumrikk, listen to hufsa on the cold wind, and eat pancakes. If there was a highspeed rail going to a larger city, that would be lovely as well, but not needed.
That film had me crying afterwards, like you say its so heartbreaking. I should rewatch it, its been a decade, but id need to be in a good emotional space to see it...
That film had me crying afterwards, like you say its so heartbreaking. I should rewatch it, its been a decade, but id need to be in a good emotional space to see it...
i brought tortilla chips (and salsa, im not a monster)
hi, would you buzz me in? Im here for the platonic snuggle sessionSeriously, if I had hair that length id be unstoppable 
(actually id be very stoppable, people could just grab my hair and stop me... 
)
Omg would you DM me the surgon?
Also what is CPA? Is the cypro?
One of my friends donated hair when she was little, and they cut it in a very specific way and all at once, but that was 20 years ago, so maybe things have changed?
Iirc donations have to be like specially cut to make sure it can be used for a wig and not be all mussed up?
maybe gross bit
Just means you gotta take up felting to make a clone of yourself out of your hair 
vent about hormones
Wondering if my hrt degraded during the heat waves of summer, and so my monotherapy isnt working the same for to block T. No breast growth, fat slowly moving back to more masc places, more acne recently, and its all been very slowly getting worse over the past like month or two (to my perception at least). Im on 15 u100 units of 40mg/ml enenthate (works out to 6mg (i think)), but if it degraded idk if it still works out to that amount. Im getting levels done for the first time in 2 weeks, but idk if i should bump my injections by a couple units or not now, vs waiting for my levels to come back. I hate being my own doctor.
hair length
Holy shit thats amazing. My hair wont grow beyond my shoulders, it just keeps falling out
Using rfc 9457, we can return a problem details json object. E.g. if someone who is cis attempts to register, return the following:
HTTP/1.1 403 Forbidden
Content-Type: application/problem+json
Content-Language: en
{
"type": "https://hexbear.net/trans-only"
"title": "No Cis Allowed"
}
Thank you, thank you, I'll be git commit -am "anti cishet aktion"-ing all night
How do you write a cover letter for a job doing very basic tasks? I feel like Im either shmoozing and being way over the top, or being realistic in a way that will keep me from getting the job. For reference the job is to package coffee and make other products. I guess i just dont understand. I need a job, they need a worker. This work can be done by most people, its not some field thats relevant, its putting beans in bags and brewing coffee, how can I say "i really want to work here" when in reality any job will do, this is just the one that vibes best with my social capacity and is offered by the least offensive corporation. Like what am I gonna say, "I love brewing coffee, i spend every day constantly brewing coffee and moving my coffee beans from one bag to another, because I just like handling coffee"?
I have also been studying or doing self employed things like tutoring for the past 10 years and my cover letter skills were shit before this and have only gotten worse.
Cant I just write "job. Me need job. You have job. Me need money for survive. You need worker for labour. You give money, i work. I work good." and be done with it?
Its just so exhausting and upsetting.
excerpt from a conversation from yesterday (CW transphobia)
Transphobe 1: its too tall!
Transphobe 2: what is?
Transphobe 1 gestures at me
Transphobe 1: that thing
The conversation continued with additional transphobia.
And like i get it okay, im not a person, not even a human, but can we just skip the whole conversation? Or is the whole dehumanization and inflicting pain thing the enjoyable part?
I guess a positive is that it shows who the fake and fairweather allies are, like i was surrounded by people i thought were allies but no one said a damn thing. It was transphobe 2 that actually called out his friend cause 'you just cant say that stuff anymore' 🙄. Transphobe 1 proceeded to try and defend his actions by claiming he was using gender neutral language cause he didnt know how to gender me. Like, no motherfucker you fucking werent! Gender neutral language isnt dehumanizing language! Now i get to go organize an event with these same "allies" who said nothing. I demand that you shoot me now, so i dont have to do this.
Im not sure why im so upset about this. Its not that bad, really just par for the course. Not like he was beating me or anything. And allies should be assumed to be false unless otherwise proven. Its just so tiring. So damn exhausting.
Thanks for listening to me
