AITA for not giving food to my grandma?

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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/No_Present3212 on 2023-07-27 15:04:29+00:00.

my dad was adopted. my grandparents also have a bio son, my uncle, who my grandma very clearly favors. my grandpa is good though he never shows any favoritism but my grandma is super annoying.

my dad says it doesn't bother him but it's very clear that it does bother him when my grandma tells people she has one "real" son and one adoptive son.

my grandma recently got sick and is bed-bound (is that the word?). my grandpa needed help caring for her and guess who was NOT willing to help? yes my grandma's golden son. so my dad and I moved in with them so dad could help him. I wasn't happy with it but I didn't get a choice.

yesterday my grandpa was at work and dad needed to leave for an emergency so it was only me and grandma. I made some dinner for myself and grandma said she is hungry and asked me if I could give her something to eat. I told her that since I'm not her real grandchild she can't expect anything from me. maybe she could call her real child to bring her something but oh wait he doesn't give a shit

my grandparents now think I'm an asshole but it's not like I starved her. dad came back in 2 hours so she would be fine