WIBTA If I don't pay my old hook up back for a gift?

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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/Cutie-Panda2002 on 2023-07-27 16:17:42+00:00.

I was recently hooking up with this guy, A, and things started out really good. We spent every day together, enjoying some devils lettuce, and playing video games. Well, I'm a broke college student and have been struggling during this summer with money. I have had just enough money to get a little bit of groceries and that's it. Because of this I couldn't afford my Xbox game pass the month we were talking.

A wanted to play video games and offered to buy my subscription for the month. I told him he didn't have to and that I felt bad since I wouldn't be able to pay him back. He ended up saying it was okay and paid for it.

Things started getting weird. A would take literal hours to show up after saying he was on his way (up to 5 hours), when hanging out he'd leave to buy us dinner and never come back not even telling me he wasn't coming back, and getting very upset when I didn't spend the day with him. Even spam calling me while I was in a movie theater with my sorority sisters (which he knew I was going).

The day I decided to cut him off was the day I realized how dumb I was for keeping A around. He said he'd come over at like 10 am, then when he didn't hours later I invited one of my sisters over to smoke. He showed up at the same time as here, saw me let her in, and left. He was texting me super pissed saying I never actually wanted to hang out with him and basically trying to bribe me into making my sister leave saying he'd buy me food. Side note, I'm definitely on the heavier side and the amount of times he tried to use that bribe felt like he was only doing it cause I'm fat, but it also could have been because I literally couldn't afford anything that wasn't in my house already.

I ended up making it clear I was done with him and blocked A on everything. Now, a month later, he somehow figured out my Cash App and is requesting $25 for that xbox game pass subscription. I was going to pay him back the $16.42 it actually cost once I have the money (I have less than a dollar in my bank account cause again, same struggles). However, my sisters are telling me not to pay him back. I feel they are right but I would feel super shitty not paying him back. So, WIBTA?