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RNAi [he/him] @hexbear.net

3w ago

Damn,

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The replies are so angry lmao
“how would your dad feel knowing you’re polyamorous?” well he had two secret families so probably just jealous
Get their ass
- Jesus, two secret families just seems like a lot of work.
  
  Hold on so this guy had three different families at the same time?
  What's the fucking point of living three lies
  
  My ex-uncle had like three or four and ngl he was pretty good at managing it all for decades so no one knew until it suddenly all fell apart five or six years ago

What's the point of a polycule if you all live in different places? Damn, that's so much money wasted on rent.
- What's the point of a polycule if you all live together?
  
  Saves on rent and easier access to leftovers. As a polyamorous person myself there is an aspect where you appreciate being part of the destruction of the standard liberal American relationship model as well.
- I don't necessarily want to live with someone I'm dating, at least in the early stages? Not all polycules are super committed relationships, or not everyone in the polycule is ay the same stage.
  
  its not my lifestyle but from the few people irl i know who do the poly thing its generally like this there is a primary couple and then like 2 or 3 people who are part of it but those people are a bit more casual it seems... i dunno

As an aside there are alot of break up posts getting posted on Tik Tok today over the fires
- Why? People dump their partners if they don't have a house anymore?
  Hmm, I wouldn't be surprised if it was that
  
  Alot of relationships can't handle a day's worth of stress or couples see how their counterpart behaves in emergencies for the first time and people get the ick
  At least that seems to be the common pattern for the videos I've watched

That’s kind of sad
- lGPL licensing of your intentionally buggy djikstra implementation to deflect from the fact that yes you did pick favorites

I mean, surely you would decide the order based on location and dangerous areas right? Like? If you're the farthest one and you get picked up last that makes sense?
Doesn't seem like that was the situation for her in this case tho based on tone
- Yeah, that was my first thought. Triage but for picking people up in the polycule
  
  No. Those with the biggest, jiggliest boobs or lowest hanging sacks get picked up first. No exceptions.

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