Why did no one tell me that blue jays are kind of big?

This sentiment always makes me laugh. We have a large family or three that live in the area and hang out on our feeder and water. They get pushed around by the morning doves, woodpeckers and sparrows. Cardinals and house finches spaz out on their own and fly off.
- They get pushed around by the morning doves, woodpeckers and sparrows.
  I've got a birdfeeder with a camera and can confirm that Blue Jays are NOT the bullies 99% of the time!
- For mine I watched the big male hold a Carolina Wren down and murder it while the others of the Wren's group tried to dive bomb and harass the Blue Jay.
  I'm not sure what the Wren's did to it, but it made me like the Jays a little less.
Oh, word? 👀 That's good to know because best believe my head would be out the window trying to look at it
Another vote for Jays getting a bad reputation. Mine are at least as polite as any of my other birds, if not moreso.
They look to have a pecking order among themselves though. I only ever really see them harass each other.
Otherwise they are charming and have great personalities. Mine all act very differently from each other and they give me endless hours of entertainment.
Big thumbs up to everyone here too for discussing this and not just downvoting you. This is how it should work.
- Ours are just peanut fiends. They're either nowhere to be found or gobbling up peanuts.
No lie, mom hated them. They'd drag the babys out of our bird house and throw them on the ground to die.

It’s funny how birds you’ve only seen in a guide book can seem like they’re ’supposed to be’ a very different size than they actually are! I always think shore birds are going to be bigger than they actually are. The first time I saw a willet it was enchantingly small.

I heard the Jay before I saw it and honestly thought it was some kind of hawk 🤣 Then I saw this big bird and was like, "That's a blue Jay???" I thought they were, like... Finch size or something. My cat was unimpressed, but I was jazzed about it!
I was surprised how big Black-crowned night heron is, back when I saw them for the first time in Zoo. Its my favorite bird in the Wingspan board game, and I guess with their big head and the short neck, I was expected a smallish bird. Boy was I wrong.
- I saw one recently at Carolina Beach, and only got a clumsy picture of it, but what a magnificent bird.

A little bigger than a cardinal, about half the size of a crow. sounds like a rusty gate when arguing.

sounds like a rusty gate when arguing
Hence why they are my favorite! 💙
(OK, tied with crows)
- Takes the whole bird to make that sound. They have to bob up and down and move their wings and flick their tails to do it. Seems to be an effective way to settle disputes though.

Well, they are crows, after all.

Alolan Crow
I didn't know that! That makes more sense about the size and sound. The more you know!
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You never asked me.

For most of my life, I thought blue scrubs were blue jays. 🤷🏻‍♂️

I just looked it up and I 100% pictured blue jays looking like that. I thought they'd be cute and little 🤣