1d ago

I'm gay and I dunno what it means

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I am a biological woman. I identify as such. I don't know what the same person plus 30+ minutes with a curling iron has to do with cheating. Effort? Vanity? This is far, far beyond me somehow. I am also very old so there's that.
- I think you helped me crack it, i think it's saying that the person who looks like you but puts in more effort to their appearance on the regular is more attractive. That makes sense to me, and would be true in the main for most people, it's one of the most common things said to people who are struggling to find partners.
  You could take negative connotations from that about that person being vain but really it should be on the cheater for being a fucking cheater.
  
  puts in more effort to their appearance on the regular
  Nah. My wife has naturally wavy hair. She goes to work with it blow-dried, flattened, and a little plain-looking. On weekends she does none of those things, and it looks gorgeous and wavy and bouncy. Maybe I just have a definite preference -- Even Jen Psaki on the TV - gorgeous already - looks better in her other, more natural style, and she's probably got advisors telling her to vamp it up.
  
  Who downvoted this?
  
  A Republican who secretly loves but public ally has to hate Jen Psaki
  
  I agree with you, but don't like that the interpretation puts the onus on the person being cheated on. Like, people will cheat even if they're with the most gorgeous, totally out of their league person. Cheating has nothing to do with how attractive or how attentive to themselves your partner is. If you're a cheater, you're gonna be a cheater.
  
  I actually think what you said is the real point of the image. To me they are saying that they will cheat with a girl that looks just like you, because that's how guys be.
- I am a biological woman. I identify as such.
  Do you mean a cis woman?
  Or are you trying to separate yourself from robot women?
  
  I wanna be a robot woman
  
  That's good enough for me. Congrats!
  
  I assume she meant exactly what she said.
  
  So... an organic woman
  
  oh, no, a lot of pesticides are involved
- Probably personality?

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