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Banana mega! Trans Megathread from April 28th, 2025 to May 4th, 2025

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  • hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

    the list as it stands:

     
            Hestia (5/5 - 5/11)
    EstraDoll* (5/12 - 5/18)
    SadArtemis* (5/19 - 5/25)
    yewler* (5/26 - 6/1)
    AshenWolf* (6/2 - 6/8)
    PeeNutButtHer (6/9 - 6/15)
    oscardejarjayes* (6/16 - 6/22)
    GayTuckerCarlson* (6/23 - 6/29)
    Eco* (6/30 - 7/6)
    Disaster_of_Passion (7/7 - 7/13)
    peanutbuttercupola* (7/14 - 7/20)
    BountifulEggnog* (7/21 - 7/27)

    ​ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

  • day 4 of intense effort to choose a new name. my external deadline is less than a week away. i have three tentative names, and one of them is being put through the ultimate test.

    playing through Celeste for the first time with myself named it.

  • Hanging out with the homies as we smoke our massive communal joint

    I get handed the aux chord and put on "State and Revolution"
    everyone loves it and young stalin kisses me on the mouth

  • yawns and stretches another successful day of oversharing now its time to sleep soundl- ooohhhuuughghgggggghhhhhh noooooooooooooooo what have i done

  • lately I've been tempted to get a PS5, but I'll think I'll refrain, not because it doesn't have games I'm interested in (it does), but just because it's ugly

  • If you can suppress the urge to cringe and instead look onward with wide eyes and a smile that goes to your eyes then you know you're doing your inner child proud.

  • My style is to worry so much I get a tummy ache

    and then it usually being a nothing burger. Hope it's a nothing burger since I wanna enjoy my lazy sunday and I can't do anything about it till tomorrow anyway

  • My coworkers were talking about pensions today. They're a little closer to retirement (within the next 10 years). Cause I started later in life, they told me I'd probably be working 30 full years (until I'm well into my 60s). They wondered what I'd do about it all. I told em "does 2055 sound like it'll be good years going forward from that or bad." And that's probably the biggest difference between generations (as real as they are) lol. One hand you have something stable but you had to work for, the other feels like the end of a thread of an unraveling sweater

  • So this is capeshit, my mom is watching end game and it's the part where the bow guy and Scarlett Johansen have to figure out who's gonna be sacrificed to get the soul stone. Doesn't Bow Guy... have a wife and kids? When it's time to recount the story, is he gonna tell them that he sacrificed the one he loved the most - Scarlett Johansen?

  • I miss playing shadow reloaded

    after my first Wii died the second one I had I tried to homebrew but I had issues with it and just kinda stopped. That game was comfort slop even if 1.0 was ballbustingly hard it was goated. Now I remember the update of reloaded used a custom version of nintendont that I could never figure out. Might give it another go later and stick to 1.0 since I hope my progress is still on the GC memory card. I remember I was A ranking it all and it was very difficult with the revised scoring system added

  • The transfem urge to want to look good in the prettiest princess-esque dress of all time, while also wanting to be able to run more masc or androgynous clothing while not being looked at as a man.

  • Pride month is approaching, and one of the most rage-inducing phenomenons I know is back: Liberals defending the pride flag by claiming it's not a political symbol but just a symbol of human rights and inclusivity and other totally not political stuff.

    Genuinely such an offensive thing to say. I know there are bigger problems in the world, but this one makes me so fucking mad every time

  • I was just chatting with an online friend (one who I don't talk to a whole lot but recently started chatting with more). I usually communicate with her by text, but I sent her a voice recording tonight.

    She said, "Oh, cool! I like your voice."

    And then I said, "Yeah, I'm still trying to sound less masculine, but I like my progress."

    Then she said, "Wait, what do you mean?"

    I said, "I'm training my voice to sound less masculine. It's very common for trans people to do!"

    Then she said, "Wait, you're trans?"

    I said, "Yeah, wait a minute, did you not know?"

    Then she said, "No. I seriously did not!"

    I thought she knew this whole time! She has seen multiple pictures of me, and my bio has a πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ in it even!

    And I said, "That's crazy. I never thought I looked feminine enough for people to basically assume I'm a cis woman."

    She said, "Well, you obviously look very feminine to me."

    Not only that, though, but she said this ALL after hearing me speak. And her initial reaction wasn't, "Wow, your voice is deeper than I was expecting" or anything like that... she just liked it and didn't question it. I guess that means that not only do I look more feminine than I think, but my voice sounds more feminine than I think too.

    We laughed for a bit, and I ultimately let her know it's a very good, validating thing. Shit's crazy.

  • finally got my first pair of girl pants. I think I did okay guessing my size from a chart (goodwill does not have changing rooms so I couldn't try it on until I got home), it's a bit baggy for what should be skinny jeans, but it's close enough that i'll be wearing them. Overall I'm happy with it, but yall were not lying about the lack of pockets 🫠

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