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relationships and fear of abandonment
  • I work as a psychologist, fears of abbandonment are a lot more common than many think. If you are this afraid I'd recommend going to psychotherapy to sort it out. It can help a lot if you put the effort in.

  • I feel like absolute trash for not knowing what to get my friends for Christmas and just generally not being able to invest too much energy into the holidays.
  • I find giving gifts hard as well, and I hate that I' often expected to be happy, even if I have no need or use for the thing So I talked with family and friends, I don't want gifts, I don't need gifts. I'm happy to meet, have a nice dinner. This made christmas soo much better for me. With my partner we write a list of stuff we'd like, and we get the other one/two things from that list to keep the surprise part. A surprising number of friends like giving gifts, but don't expect it to be returned if you don't want to.

    I feel like your problems go a lot deeper, but a preemptive talk about it csn help if they are reasonable people

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    Looking for tips on calling a doctor
  • I don't know what kind of a healtcare system you have, but where Iive it's funded by taxes. I used zo struggle with that kind of thought "It's a minor problem, I'll be wasting capacity" until I looked at how much money I'm paying every month. That helped me get into the mindset of "I'm paying you, I have the right to get looked at".

    Also if you have these kinds of thoughts, then you are likely a type of person who tends to downplay their problems at least a bit, so when you start thinking about the need to go to the doctor, you need to take it more seriously

  • Dragon Age: The Veilguard | Official Reveal Trailer
  • DA:I did a tone-shift from dark fantasy towards high fantasy. Personally I prefer hf to df, but I can see that it is a different vibe. This? This did a tone shift from hf to Guardians of the Galaxy. And I don't think this tone can deliver on what they set up with the Dreadwolf at the end of Trespasser

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