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  • this makes me so sad, especially since i know you won't easily change your mind (。╯︵╰。)

    just know that you don't need to change to fit over people's mold, especially the mold of lemmy world plebs

  • No need to make up being unfathomably miserable when gender dysphoria is clearly killing you. You cannot carry on like this, so please just tell your therapist every bit of the truth. If they refuse to believe you, they are completely failing at their jobs and are a disgrace to the practice.

  • Femcel Memes @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    a classic before i eep 😴

  • a cute nerdy twink; truly blessed ( ͡~ ͜ʖ ͡°)

  • I've never fully understood the mindset that compels some guys to be so awful, but some guys really are shitheads. It does seem largely social, but it's also extra enticing to cis guys over other folk. Being told you're special and deserve to be in charge for being yourself is a seductive message, just like the argument for white supremacy or ultra nationalism.

    It doesn't mean all men will get roped in or that any need to stay in, but it is still a real threat that it isn't your responsibility to solve. Keep yourself safe before sacrificing for others.

  • Honestly, part of the problem isn't just with your therapist, but the outdated gatekeepy system in your county that wants to "prove" your transness before helping you. Evidence does not support this approach, which is why many places have moved away from unnecessary delays

    You are in a bad place mentally, and there is a good chance that gender dysphoria is the main cause. Sometimes people have no choice but to come out and affirm their gender, as they are unable to even function otherwise.

    I thought I could delay coming out, but I just hadn't realized how bad things were. More importantly, I never realized how good things would be once I left that worn out mask behind. It really held me back from everything. My fears were nothing in comparison to the horror I was living, and the joys were more than I dreamed.

  • cute girls gotta be careful about being too inviting to dudes. you sadly gotta watch out for ppl in your dms if you comment like that too often

  • it's debatable if TES dragons even have gender

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  • 196 @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    partysnacks rule (⁠◕⁠દ⁠◕⁠)

  • "mostly" carrying the weight of the world there

  • careful there smorty, ur saying some dangerous things 🤭

  • you sound like a cutie in need of affirmation <3

  • guys do need more compliments, but catcalls feel more like harassment than appreciation.

  • smorty!!!!! if your therapist was properly serving you, you wouldn't be trauma dumping to us as often as you do. she'd have affirmed your gender ages ago and wouldn't have fucked around for so long. you keep blaming yourself like someone in an abusive relationship!

    I've had these problems with your therapist for months, long before i ever talked with adora about them, so don't think I'm angry because of her. i get really upset when therapists "wait and see" or question a person's identity when they're so clearly trans

  • it's not the lines that are straight, but your perception 乁⁠༼⁠☯⁠‿⁠☯⁠✿⁠༽⁠ㄏ

  • so long as it's not your current therapist ;3

  • Femcel Memes @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Disclaimer: don't actually catcall people

  • 25 year old me looking at how stupid 25 year old me is today ƪ(˘⌣˘)ʃ

  • it's a beautiful place mired by an evil empire

  • Yuri memes @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    another one i hope i haven't posted X8

    Femcel Memes @lemmy.blahaj.zone

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    Trans Memes @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    i bring you my oldest shavepost

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    Yuri memes @lemmy.blahaj.zone

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    One Punch Yuri 👊

    Femcel Memes @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    i totally got u! plz tell more (⁀ᗢ⁀)

    196 @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    10/10 shavepost

    Femcel Memes @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Wake up girlies! new Senukin shitpost series just dropped (⁠◕⁠ᴗ⁠◕⁠✿⁠)

    Trans Memes @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    classic shavepost time 😁

    Yuri memes @lemmy.blahaj.zone

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    196 @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    nap time rule

    Femcel Memes @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    the real solution is to avoid discord and hang out with anarchists on matrix :3c

    196 @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    libs and fascists rule like...

    Yuri memes @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    so pure 😊