I was in my parents attic with a job waiting to save enough for a house. I just asked a girl out on a date. I stopped worrying about being at home as I had a valid reason to be there. I moved back in from out of state and didn't have much saved up. But I just talked with the girl. My point being you are more worried about your status than she will be, and you are trying to force being charming. The only thing you need to force is keeping yourself from saying something that Louis CK would. Just chat. And be honest.

Would you rather be in a MMF or FFM threesome, and why?

My wife and I are overweight folks. I have quite the gut, and she has a rather large booty. My gut on her trunk prevents any doggy style action. And it gets worse when she wants to be on top, my claustrophobia kicks in and I panic so bad I lose the erection.