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me_irl @lemmy.world

Herr Woland @lemmy.world

9mo ago

me_irl

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I'm a white flag because I have given up.
- That's how I got into the majority of my relationships! I realized that I had like no game whatsoever and I just stopped trying, and weirdly enough that seemed to work okay.
  
  The key here is that people can practically smell strong emotions like anger, hunger, fear, anxiety, and lust. Free yourself from those - basically run out of fucks - and you can pass for someone that just oozes strength and confidence.
  
  Nothing is less attractive than desperation

Let's be honest, I think 90% of people are truly undateable. We just let our sex drive distract us from that.
- Sounds like something a red flag would say. What are you doing this Saturday night?
  
  Uhhh probably just wallowing in misery like usual
  
  Texasdrunk and Trainwreck will have beautiful, perpetually unstable alcoholic Texan children. Life is beautiful.
- Sounds boring. But probably correct.
- If I've learned anything, it's that "date-able" is never to be confused with "sex-able". Of course, like all good advice, this is easier said than done.
- Must be 18, too old for him.
- Maybe we're all just Angry people, with financial problems, making evil babies..
  
  Lemon Demon is still around? Crazy
  
  That was ... better than I expected. Nice.
- Yeah me n u r in th 10%
  
  Yeah, the bottom 10%

I can't relate b/c I am nowhere close to being this hot irl :-P
- I found that hot people tend to be as deep as a kiddie pool. You may have lucked out
  
  Personally, I found that it's all too easy to mistake a differently shaped pool for a kiddie pool. Most of them are as hot as they are, because they've got some deep cuts, always thinking of themselves as ugly. Most will also have stories of sexual harassment to tell.
  Doing all the sports, makeup etc. does bind time, which they cannot spend pursuing interests that you share. And if you dismiss them for that reason, then of course, they will never tell of their darkest waters, which will make them look all the more like a kiddie pool.
  
  Hehe, no wonder I'm so smart then!? :-P

I met the new intern who's going to deal with my meds prescriptions for the next 6 months, omg she's so cute it hurts. So here I am, explaining to her everything that is wrong with and why I'm a train wreck... It hurts
- She can fix you.

What?
- "Red Flag" is a term assigned to events that are foreboding of terrible consequences, such as a man who talks a lot about his ex and collects firearms or a woman who lacks empathy towards others and drinks cinnamon whiskey.
  The meme therefor translates as:
  "When you find a nice good person who is dateable but you yourself have become the problematic person in the potential relationship."

I really dislike the current use of red flag. Seems it's used for any personality trait one doesn't like instead of being an actual red flag. I think people who freely use the term red flag are judgmental and thats a big...red flag...
- What do you think red flag means other than incompatability? It's not like the usage has changed, it's always been meant to signify "I don't like this about you".
  I don't disagree with you about judgemental people overusing it, though. But that's just judgemental behavior in general, I think you might just not like judgy people - which is fair.
  
  I use to think a red flag was a telling sign that someone isn't who they say they are, borderline psycho or have other underlying issues such as being abusive or manipulative.

That's my secret cap, I'm always red flags.

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