Get rid of those angry, masculine mannerisms

"Improved mental state"?
"Improved self-confidence"?
I think the person who made this list did not grow up as a girl. This coming hard on the heels of man/bear.
- This coming hard on the heels
  Keep your kinks to yourself!
- Depends on where you start. My mental state was pretty fucked before, and while I can't say my self confidence is amazing, you shoulda seen it then. Definitely not for everyone, tho.
  
  Yeah, after I posted I realized it probably meant that transitioning to your identified gender improved your mental health, not that girls are more mentally healthy. Same with self-image. I left it because, wiggle-room.
- Baby-Transfem here, started HRT literally last week:
  Until last friday I was suicidal, constantly depressed and full of self-hate I couldn't understand.
  Since I got my first dose estrogen my mental health drastically improved (as did some other hormone-related body functions that only need the hormones in my blood but not necessarily a prolonged exposure).
  I learned from my doc that some transpersons have a brain structure of their non-assigned sex and then show exactly my pattern of relief; meaning my brain was actually born to be estrogen- instead of testosterone-dominated. (which seems to be based on the hormones oned mom exposed one during 3-4th and 10-14th week of infancy. One periods influences the gender of the brain, the other the sex of the general body)
  So while I see where you are coming from, and I heavily prepare myself for all the sexism that will probably bring me back to earth as soon as I visually feminize; I can attest that HRT improved both drastically for me (for now)
  
  Yup! I replied to someone else that my comment was just about female-ness, not about fixing something broken about you. Your situation and result are entirely valid!
- I think the person who made this list did not grow up as a girl.
  Are you trying to argue that us trans women aren't real women you disgusting pig?
  
  You are on a hair trigger, friend. No one's trying to reject you or hurt you.
  Your meme didn't land with some of us, that doesn't make you any less valid.
  The meme implies the list of benefits simply comes with being a woman, not just from transitioning as a trans person.
  If you're trans, every step of transitioning to your real gender is a real improvement to your life and health.
  But if you're not trans, or are trans, but FtoM or just look at it a little different...
  The meme is rubbing people the wrong way because it mixed up the improvements that come from transitioning as a trans person, with being a woman being better than being a man.
  If you were assigned male and transitioned or started transitioning to female, of course your life and health will be better!
  But you accidentally implied being a woman automatically solves a bunch of problems that women absolutely can and do still have, and that the problems men have are caused by them being men.
  
  Forgot the /s

This gives a very specific kind of trans woman vibe and I don't think I like it. I think it's the "angry masculine mannerisms" that is bothering me. Masc / butch trans women exist too, and it feels weird to imply only men get angry. This seems to simplify and put into a box what being a trans woman is.
Edit: also HRT affects everyone differently and to act like it makes everyone cute and small and feminine is misleading. Being trans is exhausting sometimes and takes a lot of work, and some may never fit this description regardless of how hard they try.
Edit 2: I'm a trans woman myself and I'm nearly 99% sure OP is just a troll at this point. If not, she's seriously making herself look like a moron.
- Thanks so much I really needed a cis person to explain to me, a trans woman what it really means to be trans /s, fuck off.
  
  Thanks for assuming I'm fucking cis and not a fellow fucking trans woman. Fuck you and fuck your stupid, demeaning "meme". Fucking jerk.
  
  So far it seems youre just trying to be annoying. If you didn’t want anyone to tell you anything you could’ve just kept your meme to yourself.

Counterpoint: I can do the helicopter with my dick
- There are plenty of women who can do that too.
  
  Do the helicopter with his dick?

Ability to wear adorable clothes
I already do that. No reason for transitioning.
Fuck social norms.
Fuck the police.
And fuck you.
aggressively flings fluffy scarf over the shoulder
- I never understood how people get so stuck in-denial, I mean ask yourself, is there really something so wrong with being a girl. Really what is so bad abut that to you that you'll intentionally and repeatedly deny who you are to yourself? I wish you luck sis and I hope you can come out to yourself and be happy one day.
  
  ...are you trying to tell them what their gender should be?
  
  Bad troll.
  
  You are nothing but a troll and I love how the mods do jack shit about it.
  
  Clearly you didn't understand anything...
  
  Sure, you can jump gender if you feel like it, but you're replying to a person who transcended those silly boundaries without immediately constraining themselves to a different one. I suspect they are next level happy.

This reads as casually sexist towards both men and women. Agression? Luscious hair? This isn't really a meme, this is just "man bad, (idealised) woman good", that's neither funny nor relatable
- It absolutely reeks of an /r/egg_irl femcel, especially their comments through the rest of the thread.
  
  Yeah they're definitely giving egg_irl vibes, I don't know what femcel is though, is that something else like egg_irl?

So, like, I literally don’t care if someone identifies as whatever gender. You do you.
Just don’t tell me how to do me.
- amen

I actually disagree with the anger one I've seen women get angry. Anger is a gift for everyone
- Yeah, "angry, masculine mannerisms" sounds kind of shitty. I'm very happy for anyone who can express themselves as their own chosen gender but we don't need to put down others.

But....my beard. ;_;
- I think some tiddies would nicely contrast my beard.
  
  Well, I have those already, but they aren't nice ones...
- (un)fortunately HRT does not remove your beard ;)
  Wanna be a beautiful girl with a wonderful shiny beard?
  There is a chance!
  (Altho having specific physical goals in mind on HRT is more a gamble; and obviously (unfortunately, but it is what it is) a beard on a girl will often lead to weird looks and remarks.)

OP you need help

The same thing could be achieved by self reflection, developing emotional intelligence, and doing the work to improve as a man! That way hostile masculine feelings can be calmed.
Nothing wrong with becoming a cute girl if that’s what will bring you gender euphoria.
- I am almost certain that the hips and tiddies can't come from self-reflecting harder.
  
  Unless you're self-reflecting with my pals ben and jerry

Decimate my fapping addiction? I think you mean exacerbate...
- After all, how else am I to appreciate the tits that I now have?
  
  Ah yes, nothing more typically female than jacking off to your own breasts.

You know, I fully support converting everyone into fem- and or tomboys, but this is really more of a shitpost than a meme and I hope you can see why it's not exactly received well in c/memes
- This is a meme about trans women, please don't conflate us with femboys.

I don't think this is the right audience for this.

It’s blue actually

Doesnt this come free when you buy a second hand thinkpad?
- Sadly not, I would've bought many thinkpads if it did.
  
  Atleast thinkpads are the femboy and transgender laptop :3

I'll have you know that my hair is thick and luscious as it is!
- Thick hair bros unite
  
  He'll yeah, brother

Give me a tail and we'll talk.

I already have thick and luscious hair. Will E make it even better? Hmm...
- Only one way to find out UwU

Yes, but the maintenance of all that!

No one remembers Metrosexual I guess. It was the 00's attempt at trying to stop the stereotypical masculinity in hetero men.
- Nah, people remember, it was just not that great at breaking hetero stereotypes. It just shifted them to being pretty while still thinking the same way. It was a step for sure, but not really a big one.
  What really helped break through the bullshit was gay men coming out and living life. When men started seeing the vast array of masculinity in that community, it allowed new discourse about what masculinity is, outside of the old patriarchal paradigm.
  You started seeing more men embrace their self and express it fully. The discussion about being free to express emotions, to be a nuturing man, to be gentle and kind and open with everyone started becoming a possibility instead of a weakness. And nobody had to give up anything to have that freedom. It's still perfectly fine to be traditionally masculine if that's who you are, as long as you aren't trying to define others.
  From there, we all got to expand our personal definition of masculine for ourselves. And, as we move into a paradigm where everyone can just be who they are, without any need to label themselves if they don't want to, we will be able to pick and choose even more. We can explore the fullness of human experience in a way I don't think has ever been possible. And that is largely thanks to our trans and non binary friends and neighbors stepping up and living their lives without apology.
  Hell, if you ask me, the first step was back with the hippies and their long hair. Then the metalheads picking up that baton and running with it through the eighties until that one barrier to looking like a man was gone and likely gone for good. Those guys at the end of the boomer generation looking to escape the trap patriarchy had set for them took the first public step by growing their hair out and still being men, being comfortable with it.
  It takes time to shift perceptions. It takes people at the edges being willing to step forward and be the change.
- Wasn't that just an attempt to take over the world by crab-people?

I need a shirt/sweater like that one!

Man it feels good to see this agenda pushing zealot get what she deserves. Let any right-winged individual see that the left doesn't in fact want to "make everyone gay", but to let them be themselves

- Think deleting your horrible sexist joke absolves you from responsibility you disgusting sexist pig?
  
  Sounds like you did not successfully ditch your angry masculine mannerisms.
  
  I deleted 5 seconds after posting because it was stupid, I bet you are the only one who actually seen it from notifications or the like.

cry for whatever fucking reason

how do I filter out trans posting
- Curate your own feed by blocking users.
  
  Too many Lemmy users for that to be practical
- You could always choose not to engage.
  
  Already do that
- Oh look, another transphobe 🙄
  
  I just don't find the content relevant or have any interest in it ever

- Hey everyone, we have a downvote troll planning vote manipulation.
  Admins be on the lookout for accounts with no history downvoting single posts, it's probably this guy running those sockpuppets.
  
  Says the person posting for negative attention.

You had me at tiddies

feminize me, daddy
- Mommy

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