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Do you dislike being mistaken for Americans?

Around ~2008 I was in a Barcelona hostel and met a guy there. He started speaking and I interrupted him excitedly...."Oh you're American!!".

He looked down...the weight of pain curdled the air around us. You could sense deep sorrow welling beneath the surface of this man. He paused for what felt like an eternity to compose himself,

He looked up with a piercing, but harrowing, stare and said "No, I'm Canadian...."

I'll never forget that moment. That sheer depth of emotion is something I haven't experienced before or since.

Did I silently murder this poor Canadian soul? How do Canadians cope with the mistaken identity?

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  • This is a Caucasian issue only ... I'm Indigenous Canadian - I'm a big tall brown, long dark haired full blooded Ojibway/Cree ... and I've travelled the world in Asia, South America, Caribbean, northern Africa, Europe, Asia and India ... I'm a budget traveller with my wife so we seldom stayed in any high end places.

    I've been confused for Portuguese, Brazilian, Moroccan, Algerian, Thai, Chinese, Malay, Indian, Pakistani, Burmese, Laotian, Peruvian, Ecuadorian, Mexican, Chilean but never for an American or even a Canadian. My personal favourite was being identified as an overweight Thai. I'm also a straight guy but I've had Sri Lankan men comment on my beautiful tits ... lol. In Cambodia, we had a laugh as airport security couldn't decide if they should have a male officer or a female officer pat me down ... I sheepishly looked at the male guard and told him he was my guy ... laughs all around. My proudest one was being identified as Peruvian ... when I saw the Indigenous people in Cuzco, I felt like I had entered a dimension where I could see my grandparents, uncles, aunts and old Elders I knew a long time ago.

    My family on both sides of my family have been here for thousands of generations and I still meet people in my home country who assume I'm an immigrant of some sort.

  • Gah! I had the comment mostly typed out and tabbed out and it was gone. Alas, here we go.

    Once I was in London (your London, not our fake one here in Canada) riding a bus. There was an empty window seat, so I asked the young lady "is this seat taken?" She looks up and me an scowls, clearing picking up what she perceived to be an American accent or turn if phrase and says: "it's not for Americans." I reply, "but I'm Canadian!" fully expecting it to end there. But to my surprise she says, "oh, in that case" and slides over to the window.

    In Germany, I've gotten into vigorous arguments with Germans over the proper adjective to use to describe where I'm from. See, in German, the adjective "American" describes anyone from the continents of North or South America. So when I tell them I am not an American, they usually respond with "yes you are." Much debate follows, usually with beer involved.

    Speaking of beer. I was in Stuttgart for an open source hacker meeting a while back. After spending the day around a conference table and whiteboard, we head to the bar. The Germans in our group are ordering beer by the litre, in very large steins. When the server comes around, I ask for one as well, and she says: "most Americans find out beer pretty strong. Would you perhaps like to start with a half litre?" to which I naturally reply "But I'm Canadian!". She just goes "oh, I'll bring you a litre."

    There are many more such examples. :)

    • Iโ€™m a friendly Canadian whoโ€™s approachable

      I thought your whole 'thing' was that you're polite and friendly!? Surely you don't need to say "friendly" and "approachable"?

      With regards to your reputation for politeness/friendliness - do you think that's compared to Americans? So for example you're at the same level of polite as Brits? Or do you think your friendliness/politeness goes above Brits even.

      Obviously this is all stereotypes/generalisations. You're average inner-London (UK) chav with a zombie knife isn't that polite!

  • It's only happened once and it was a fellow Canadian. For some reason they said I had a southern accent?

    Meanwhile some American friends who have heard my voice were all like, "you sound soooo Canadian!โ€œ

    • I was at a mixer (science conference) in California once, and was talking to a colleague when from behind us, out of nowhere: "did you just say aboot?"

  • Me, personally, it's not a big deal. But in several ways Canadian identity is based on comparing ourselves with the United States, as if it were the only relevant comparator. I see this in policy and people's national identification. So, I do think a good number of Canadians dislike being mistaken for Americans because it doesn't align with their identity. Separate from that - and the context of this post is travel - there's a popular idea amongst Canadian travellers - especially the hostel-going type - that the world perceives Canadians better than Americans. So, many will display Canada flags when they travel to preemptively fend off the idea that they're American

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