How do you help somebody that always says they're bored?

People who are bored all the time could be depressed. Depression being stigmatized, people won't necessarily want to talk about it more directly, or "bother" other people with it. It could also just be expressing a desire to do something without knowing what.

The people basically encouraging chores (wtf?) or implying they're a manipulative emotional vampire should consider being a little less judgmental.

You don't. Boredom is a gift. It drives people to be creative and improve themselves.

You don't. Unless your job is to entertain this person otherwise it's his/hers problem. If by any chance this this person is putting the responsibility of his/hers emotional state on your shoulders and asking you to do something, it's not ok and is an attempt of manipulation.

This is fairly common in both depression and ADHD, so maybe check on them? Like, make sure they are personally okay. Someone who needs to be consistently stimulated is probably uncomfortable at rest. Being bored all the time is something I struggle with personally. I have ADHD and depression and trauma. Addressing and working on those things helps immensely with the chronic boredom. When I'm more depressed or anxious, I'm more easily bored and crave more stimulation. So, yeah, play Ted Lasso and check in on them.

A couple things struck me here, and idk if they're relevant or not. If it was just an occasional "I'm bored", that's one thing. But with always being bored, you start getting into a paraphrased, "Why don't you entertain me?" And (unless this is a toddler and you're their parent or babysitter) that's not your responsibility.

The second thing is, you (and whoever else is entertaining them) aren't going to be around constantly, nor are you going to be around forever. They will always be bored unless they learn how to entertain themselves, to seek out something that they find interesting or worthwhile or somehow meaningful.

Moving into speculation here, but I would suspect they'd like more connections in their life, so I'd start encouraging them with that. If they're the type to connect with nature, maybe walks are a good idea, or even if you live in an area where nature is scarce, giving them plants may help. That could be something they nurture from a seed, or a food they can grow, or pretty flowers.

If they connect with animals, then volunteering at a shelter, or getting a job as a dog walker, etc, that may help ground them. If they connect with people, then volunteering is a good way to meet people. Volunteering doesn't have to be at a shelter or food pantry; in my town you can volunteer with the fire department, schools, local parks, etc. If they crave intellectual stimulation, then encourage them to learn by taking online classes, or to simulate their imagination by reading, preferably physical books.

Anyway, that's my .02, fwiw. Again, it's not your job to entertain them, and they're always going to be bored until they learn how to entertain themselves.

There is two things to do

1. find something they enjoy and ask if they want to do it
2. realize they were never gonna do #1 no matter how interesting it might be. And now you know why they're always bored

Hand them a book. If they don't start reading, take the book and smack them with it, then hand it back. Very important to never say a word. Just stare seriously, directly into their eyes.

Harvey Danger told me that if you're bored then you're boring. So you need to tell them to go do something instead of complain about it. Some people need to be pushed out of their comfort zone to snap out of boredom

Expose them to a range of hobbies.

Ask if they want to snuggle? At least now you have something to talk about.

Typically, people aren't always bored, because otherwise, you are basically emotionally flat and depressed and soon will be suicidal. Have you seen kids that say they are bored? It just means they are not doing anything that interest them.

To get "unbored", you most likely need to be doing something that is fun, and/or meaningful, and/or enjoyable, and/or worthy, and/or essential to survival (in a way, people who are bored may be having it too easy). It may be better to be doing something productive, personally or socially, than doing something just addictive.

Even being still meditating is doing something (like actively paying attention to the breath).

It's good to be bored, so they can think over things like bad life decissoons, why they are bored and why they think somebody else needs to entertain them instead of fjndjng something to do. (Or why they should do anything anyway)

There's nothing wrong with doing nothing for a while.

My mom always said, "if you kids don't have anything you want to do, I have plenty of things I want you to do." So give them some chores. If they're gonna be unhappy they can at least be accomplishing something that needs doing. If they hate it enough, they will suddenly think of something they'd rather do, and will enjoy it more because of the alternative. If they stop bringing this problem to you, so much the better.

I don't get how anyone can be bored nowadays.

Give them something creative to do. Boredom is the mother of creativity.

I’ll second the idea that boredom isn’t always bad, and that it can often lead to new ideas and experiences. But if you really feel the need to do something for the person, try gifting experiences like food tours, trial hobbies or sports (curling, photography, etc).

Give them a project to complete.

The comments here, including mine, most likely won't help you to find a solution for that boredom. 'Bored' is a vague term. There can be endless ways why and especially how drastic somebody is always bored. Whether that somebody is you, somebody who asked you for help or somebody who you think needs help, you know them better than anyone here.

When someone tells me they are bored, I say: "Only boring people are bored." That usually stops them in their tracks to contemplate.