Anyone else have reactionary/fascist family members that think they're successfully hiding it from you?

My fucking putrid father said he was glad the new neighbors were "not from the city" when he only knew what they looked like (white). Dude, you're not fooling me, I know you're a fucking nazi dipshit. You're not hiding it here and you're not hiding it when you keep referring to animals that breed in the wild exclusively as "sl*ts". Also thinks it's normal to talk about asking ever delivery driver at work "where they're from."

But I hear how he talks to other people not me and he's definitely trying to hide it, but he's too fucking stupid. Meanwhile if I tell fellow family members they just shake it off.