Would people judge me if I ordered a boppy nursing pillow despite not having children and never planing on having children?
Would people judge me if I ordered a boppy nursing pillow despite not having children and never planing on having children?
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What level of main character syndrome is that?
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Who exactly is examining your purchase orders for childfree ideological purity? You're a grownup. If you want the comfy pillow, you can buy the comfy pillow.
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You can go to any bakery and order a cake, take it home, and eat it by yourself. Same energy.
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"Ok but if you just wanted cake, why did you have them write the message 'happy 8th birthday, Kaitlyn!' on it?"
"Birthday cake just tastes better 🤷🏻♂️"
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Don't remind me
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The better question is why do you care? This is your life, do what you enjoy and tell anyone who doesn't like it to get bent.
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Because I've been wanting one for years but never thought I deserved such debauchery and if someone called me out on it the joy inside of me would die.
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And what joy would you have in life if you did or did things solely based on what other people thought about you? Maybe it's just that I have a different perspective because I'm in my 50s, but one of the things I've learned in life is that what other people think matters so very little. I understand, it's not easy to get there, I was very much a people-pleaser in my youth, but I have found a great deal of contentment in just doing the things I enjoy without regard for what others think. Don't like my flip-flops? Don't like my hair? Don't like the way I talk? Well then you are cordially invited to fuck all the way off, but in the meantime this is my life and I'm going to live it how I damned well please.
And anyone who would shit on or kill the joy in you because you bought a pillow is not your friend. Why do you care what people other than your friends/family think about literally anything? It's their weight, let them carry it.
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the joy inside of me would die.
Life gets a lot easier once you realize no one else's opinion matters, that shame and guilt are just manipulation tactics, and that you should just do what's right for you without hurting anyone else.
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sure, some people would, but the opinions of the kinds of people who'd be judgemental over something as trivial as a goddamn pillow really aren't worth much imo.
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I will judge you if you don't buy it.
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I'm pretty sure those are just relabeled as seat cushions for people who sit for long periods of time.
Kinda like wedge pillows for acid reflux and...
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Only if you draw a face on it and marry it.
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Objects are made by men and used for many purposes but we never love objects.
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a) No, nobody will judge you
b) If they do, fuck 'em
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People are gonna judge you on a lot dumber shit than that. Do you.
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I would not.
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To do what with it?
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It's classified
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Just lounge
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That doesn't sound creepy or weird at all and if someone was to judge you for getting a pillow you wanted they would be a creepy jerk
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Who's gonna know? Furthermore, who's gonna know, judge you on it, and you'll actually give a damn what that person thinks of you? Screw whatever anyone thinks or says, buy what you want.
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