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‘I feel trapped’: how home ownership has become a nightmare for many Americans

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  • For me the problem of home ownership is also a different one:

    A proverb says "you build the first house for your enemy, the second for your friend, and the third for yourself". Which means, if you're young and inexperienced and building your first house, you're gonna fall into all the pitfalls and gonna make all the mistakes that rookies make. But when you have more experience with something (when you have built multiple houses), then you know the right way and then you build better quality.

    To me it is clear that communal housing, provided by the city or community, has the potential to be significantly better than individual home building, because it can take advantage of scaling effects (economies of scale are cheaper) and also it can amass experience and make wiser decisions. So i prefer that.

    I am personally in the extremely lucky position to live in Vienna, where we have good communal homes. The city builds 200 apartments at a time, then rents them out to the citizens. The rents are cheap, as these are typically non-profit projects, and the quality is good. Good city planning is a thing.

  • “I’ve come to view home ownership and healthcare as destabilizing forces in my life,” said Bernie, a 45-year-old network engineer from Minneapolis. To finance owning his and his wife’s $300,000 home and saving for the future, the couple was foregoing medical and dental treatment of any kind and cutting back on expenses everywhere, he said, despite a pre-tax household income of more than $250,000.

    I have no idea where in Minneapolis this person is but this is nothing like my own experience in the metro area.

    My wife and I bought our home in 2021, for about the same price as he's describing and with an income far less than theirs, and we're expending less than 30% on our mortgage payment (including our insurance premiums and taxes). Maybe they bought theirs at the interest rate peak in 2020, whereas we bought ours when the interest rates bottomed out, but I can quite confidently say that our home is not the main burden on our finances.

    What is killing us is raising food and healthcare costs, as well as our student loans. Our energy utility announced last year that they would be implementing surge pricing that could almost double our energy costs, and since the utility administers the state solar incentive program themselves, they quoted us a PV system cost almost twice what you can find on the open market (they use your average monthly energy bill to determine how much you can afford to pay for the system, which ought to be criminal). We're getting fucked up down and sideways, but our mortgage payment is probably the most stable expense we have.

    There are a lot of reasons things are shit and financially precarious, but owning my home has been a rare bright spot in our otherwise gloomy financial picture. If we were still renting, not only would we be in the same strained situation as we are now, but we'd be constantly anxious about our rent skyrocketing, too.

    Home ownership isn't all sunshine and rainbows, but the alternative of renting is often just as expensive - on top of being at the whims of landlords. They've been publishing articles for a decade now trying to convince people that home ownership is overrated and renting is the way of the future, and I really wish I could trust them to report on it transparently.

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