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Trans Megathread from January 20th, 2024 to January 26th, 2024

Hi Everyone! I'm planning on adding stuff here but first enjoy your new weekly mega <3

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  • hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

    the list as it stands: 

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            SILLY BEAN@lemmygrad.ml* (1/27 - 2/2)
    AshenWolf* (2/3 - 2/9)
    GayTuckerCarlson* (2/10 - 2/16)
    oscardejarjayes* (2/17 - 2/23)
    EstraDoll (2/24 - 3/2)
    Eco* (3/3 - 3/9)

    ​ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

  • They removed the ability to change your sex with the Social Security Administration. Not entirely sure if I have or not yet, but I can no longer do so if I needed to.

    Beyond that, my mind is still broken, hence my absence on this site entirely. I'm sorry, but I can't read your posts right now without just spiraling into hell. I just needed to pass the above info along since it's somewhat useful to the average individual here. Hopefully my brain will be fixed soon. Hopefully.

  • I have been trying to come out to one of my D&D group buddies for the last four days, but every time I give him a call or try to schedule one he's unavailable. I think he's going to be accepting, but I do want to take care of this before our session this week.

  • uuugh I had so much creative energy a couple weeks ago and then This Week happened and all I've been able to do is lay around in bed all day

  • My friend kind of disappeared on me. We started out by dating, and it was great for the most part. We did decide to just be friends after a while, but then we were actually friends and it was so nice. We lived near each other, and would get together at least like once a week for the last few months. It was usually pretty casual, like we'd get coffee or work out together or he'd come over for dinner. Sometimes we'd end up spending the whole weekend together tho. It was honestly so nice having a friend like across the street, it's been years since I've had that.

    He has family living in a different state, and visited them over the holidays. The day he flew out, we got breakfast at some diner he likes and then I drove him to the airport. That was the last time I heard from him. I expected him to be busy with family and stuff, and I wasn't to surprised not to hear from him at first. I did ask him how the trip was going a couple of times. Anyway, know it's been a month and I haven't heard a thing. None of my friends who know him have heard anything either. He hasn't posted anything to social media in a while either. The trip was supposed to be over by now I thought.

    I reached out to one of his friends, who I don't know as well. I think I fucked that up tho. Like I was way too direct in asking about him and I think I weirded her out. I should have been smarter, but I was just worried.

    I mean he doesn't owe me anything, but it would be nice to have a little closure. Like I have no idea what happened. Did he not feel the same way about the just friends thing? Or did he just decide he didn't have time for me for other reasons? Or did he decide to stay with his family and not come back, which wouldn't surprise me that much honestly. Or is something wrong? I feel like I'm never gonna know and it sucks.

  • I dont post in these megas often but...

    Today is my hrt removedversary. Gonna get all dolled up in a cute dress and put on some makeup and put some bows and flowers in my hair and then not go outside at all. I'll be staying in with my dear woof and watching some anime :33333 .

  • what defines a fever keeps increasing. in the ussr it was anything above 37. 2 years ago it was like anything above 37.6. now i googled my fever and it says 38.3 is the fever cutoff that needs a doctor. is this healthcare under capitalism?

  • Going from dating as a cishet man to a trans lesbian is both a blessing and a curse

    The relationships are so much better but holy shit it's so much harder to just get a date

    Not sure if it actually has to do with being trans but it's so painful to my self esteem

  • I made a 同志/跨性别 group on XHS if anyone is interested in joining:

    Also this is my feed currently lol:

    And I came across this amazing sticker earlier on there and grabbed it:

  • I need your honest opinion on how gay was it that a dude in my freshmen year told me unprompted and in the middle of class that my eyes looked like Taylor Swift’s.

    I feel like that’s not something you say to another boy…but this guy was like…straight as hell as far as I could tell, but now looking back it’s kind of weird.

  • Planned Parenthood is trying to claim I'm 2 inches taller than I was BEFORE I started HRT. There's absolutely no way I'm that tall and I'm calling BS

    EDIT: measured again at home, i'm exactly as tall as i thought i was, PP is wrong

  • Anyone else purposefully disable notifications on Youtube comments and then spend an hour trying to find your old comments to see how much

    and
    outrage you instigated?

    No one? Just me? fuck

  • Lashki the Kind has propossed to Camila, just having to organised the wedding in Riften. I had saved up 7,500 so I could buy the Tundra Homestead outside of Whiterun and start to set up the Golden Hills farm. I adopted the homeless girl Luca (and gave the homeless man Brenuin a job as a farm hand because Luca says he was the only adult looking out for her in Whiterun). Playing survival so I had to ride all the way to Riften, which is really neat. Following the signs and paths. Found a pet rabbit for my daughter along the way.

    I have Chyrsamere, Spell Knight armour and I'm riding a reindeer. Kind of game breaking as Chrysamere and the spellknight gear has the comparable stats as Daedric, but I'm appreciaitng not having to grind given I've done that lots in the past. I like the idea of my Paladin riding in all shiny and heroic to sweep Camila off her feet.

    I doing restoration, two handed and heavy armor. I'm planning to avoid too many crafting things like smithing/alchemy/enchanting and I'm not min-maxing my stats. This character is built more around finding cool enchanted gear and using that. Working my way towards the Warlock ring in fishing because I think it will synergize well with Two-handed (it casts a ward when you block like spellbreak which gives my paladin a neat mage/dragon deterence with their two-handed sword)

  • I painted my nails (was definitely not reminded to do so by one of you ;)) and I'm honestly impressed with myself! It's not the best, but it's not bad either, especially considering that I really struggle with fine motor function. Autism strikes again, but HAHA I still win. I'm like 7 months in, have had my nails painted since before I transitioned, and this is the first time I have painted them myself. I feel really proud, like it's one more thing I can do for myself

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