I used to think it was really creepy and archaic, but an Indian friend of mine says that it was a real load off of her shoulders to just leave it up to her parents to put the work in, and she says she's happy with the man they found for her. Still wouldn't be for me, but I at least now see it as an acceptable option for people who want it. I doubt it's a fun topic of discussion when the kid doesn't want it but the parents do, but that's not unlike already existing contested topics like career choice and grandkids.
So kind of lazyness/complacency regarding obligations pressured by others. They're basically describing solutions to a problem they shouldn't have in the first place. Still seems shitty.