Ultima III let's you choose your gender as other if you want.
I think that's neat and pretty impressive for role playing games from the 80's, a genre which used to cater exclusively to men.
IDK, I've heard lots of stories about people RP'ing other genders in TTRPGs from the real early days. It couldn't have been alien to people at the time.
must've been before racists on tv knew they could make a stink about it and rile certain types of people up and milk them for money
That's cool!
Dragon Quest IV, which came out in 1990 allowed you to choose between male and female anyway. Definitely early pioneers.