Agree it needs to die, but vigilante moves like this aren't going to end it. You're just shorting workers that are completely reliant on tipping. If you want to make a difference support businesses that don't use tipping and more importantly support legislation to restrict tipping and enforce fare pay base wages.
You are so deluded if you think you being cheap and talking about it on a super niche social platform is what will make change happen. I'd be very cautious about any social justice type move that has direct immediate benefits only to you. Don't be fooled by the mind's willingness to justify incentivation - you're breaking a societal contract for your own benefit and that's it. Do you have a YouTube channel where you are promoting a movement? Are you writing letters to politicians or are you just 20% richer than the rest of us?
Honestly, they might have a point. If we collectively decide to stop tipping even the low wage wait service workers it might prompt a change since those restaurants wouldn't be able to retain staff while only paying $2 to $3 an hour.
However you are correct that expressing this on a niche platform like Lemmy isn't going to get a whole lot of traction.
The person you're arguing with is on the Canadian instance, so likely living in Canada, where servers are paid real wages, not $2.75 or whatever. (If the real wages still aren't enough to live on, then Canada should probably be raising the minimum wage, rather than tipping a small percentage of their minimum wage workers.)
Umm, so you have come up with a fancy reason why you think it's ok for you to be a jerk?
So what? You're still being a jerk. And as for your reasoning, no, you're not helping bring about any change. The owner of a restaurant couldn't care less - they're still profiting, so your whole argument is complete bullshit.
If you're expecting tipping culture to die while people still tip, you're living in a fantasy-land. If people living off of tips start noticing they're not making as much, they will start demanding more from their employers.
Tipping is a band-aid solution that needs to go away.
People who work on tips need to fight back against the exploitation. Right now, there are still too many of them who say things like "I make more with tips." In which case, fine. They can "make more" without my tip.
Once the data shows that they can make more with proper wages instead of tips, then that's what will happen. It's already what happens in most places other than America.
You've been conditioned to parrot rhetoric that only exists to keep the status quo going as long as possible.
Maybe if enough people stop tipping, workers will go work at places where they're paid enough so they don't need tips to survive? Horrific for the poor until tips-to-survive ends tho.
Voting against parties that make laws propping up an economic system that rewards psychopathy and punishes ethical behavior, would be better.
Sure if it's some sort of organized protest. One off deviations in a sea of tipping compliance only hurt individuals and make you feel like you are doing meaningful work when you are in fact just being a tool.
haven't been to a 'table service' restaurant in years, and even longer since i've done a delivery order. when i do get food from those places (which is far less frequent these days), i go get it.