The woman at the center of the DOJ's probe of Matt Gaetz testified to the House Ethics Committee that he had sex with her when she was 17 years old, sources say.
So, based on your phrasing "banging a17yo," I'm gonna guess that your issue is with the label pedophile and not the ACT OF RAPING CHILDREN. Glad that's been established.
"Pedophilia" is a psychological term, not a legal one. Perhaps you are looking for "rape."
Treating "pedophile" as a synonym for "child molester" is like treating "schizophrenic" as a synonym for "axe murder". Using psychological conditions as slurs and everyday metaphors is harmful.
(This is coming from an Aussie where 16 is the AoC in all states. We have exceptions that make it 18 if the other party has a duty of care tho)
Edit: I should add that it's still fucking creepy and weird when an older man does this. Just, not pedophilia, and not by default (statutory) rape in most places. Unlike what the people in this thread seem to think.
It's almost like we shouldn't water down such serious terms by lumping everything in with it.
Edit: I should add that it's still fucking creepy and weird when an older man does this. Just, not pedophilia, and not by default (statutory) rape in most places. Unlike what the people in this thread seem to think.
Indeed they do. And since you seem to be under the impression that those definitions do not change, please define 'silly' for me as it was defined when it began to be used in late Middle English.
I feel you're being silly regardless of the early or current definition of the word, but I'm betting you also don't use the word that way.
I mean you can also say someone is a murderer of they eat cabbage, but you'd be wrong.
Calling everyone you dislike a pedo is as lame as calling everyone you dislike a commie or Hitler.
Seriously... having sex with or raping a 17 year old doesn't make you a pedophile. It makes you a statutory rapist. That's bad enough without having to make dumb shit up as an insult.
I'm surprised and disappointed so many on lemmy are falling into that sort of weak bullshit but.. here we are
I've made the argument countless times. If you want to call raping a 17 year old pedophilia, that's up to you. I'm not going to call a swimming pool a lake.