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No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world

I'm looking for a no frills, physical key EV. Am I looking for something that no longer exists?

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I'm looking for a no frills, physical key EV. Am I looking for something that no longer exists?

Asklemmy @lemmy.ml

how is it to work everyday but Wednesdays and Thursdays?

No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world

how is it to work everyday but Wednesdays and Thursdays?

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would you use downtime at a new workplace to learn? (nursing)

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if you watch the pitt, what do you make of Dr. Trinity Santos?

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if you work at a gynecology ward, is gossip there way worse than at other wards?

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what works for you to learn large numbers of technical / medicinal jargon?

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what works for you to learn large numbers of technical / medicinal jargon?

  • Since you just said “ok” without explanation or complaint, and then hung up, thats very matter of fact, straight to the point, and lacks the more emotional response most neurotypical people would have.

    because I don't want drama and when I work I get, as you put it, straight to the point. Why wasting words and time? What do I achieve if I yell and insult back? I become a moron yelling to another moron.

  • me: Hi, I'm A and tomorrow I'll be working with you. Can you tell me how many patients do you have today at the unit?

    her: what for? (she sounded exasperated).

    me: I want to know how much I have to work.

    her: are you stupid? (aggressively)

    me: I beg your pardon?

    her: are you stupid? [insert rant here she started I didn't listen to because when people yell at me I disconnect and if she already made up her mind not to answer me, why bother? Plus, how many of you can have a conversation with somebody yelling at you?]

    me: fine [I hung up]

  • No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world

    work related: is this something only an autistic would ask?

    No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world

    Job related: Am I being stupid?

  • FYI, the medical community is one of the worst from the popularity contest perspective.

    could you write examples of is worse here than in other industries? Are some units worse than others? Some regions worse than others?

    promoting team cohesion and performance is one of our primary responsibilities, as is stepping up and leading when necessary.

    are you a nurse or doctor working in a hospital?

    I don't agree with your last part: it's not my fault that a unit is controlled by lazy gossips and the manager does nothing to make a more welcoming workplace for the quiet, working ones because she either is too coward to confront the lazy bullies or enjoys the attention or believes she is not going to find better employees. I do not work with people like that anymore, nor do I socialize with these kind of people, neither it's my job to promote performance and my paycheck sure reflects that. That's a manager's job.

    I take this job as seriously as my coworkers. If they go smoking for an hour and let me alone to take care of the whole unit your model fails. If they spend their first 90 minutes consciously not working but gossiping and I'm the only one checking vitals and charting your model fails. If the popular and lazy ones control the narrative and paint me as the uncooperative nurse while I work and they do nothing and the manager believes them over me your model also fails. To lead up I need to see that my coworkers know their shit and that they actually do that, something I hope to find at my new unit.

    This post might sound a bit abrasive, not my intention.

  • No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world

    do managers value if you're an engaged employee even if you had/have a bad reputation?

  • if OP isn’t masking then neurotypicals will likely see OP as rude, cold, or robotic.

    assuming that your post is in good faith, do you understand how tiring and ludicrous it is to pretend something you are not?

    Should we advice gays to pretend not being gay?

    It's not my fault some of my coworkers stopped growing up immediately after leaving high school. I just want to work and go home.

  • And folks who are neurotypical are going to find what you said a hard pill to swallow.

    why? are people really this thin skinned?

    fwiw these people I described are not the doctors, but like 40% of the nurses. Doctors are not the reason I quit, but these nurses are. I'm actually gonna miss working with some nurses here, the good ones, the drama free ones.

    Often in life you have to pretend to “fit in”, it’s just the price of living in a society.

    does that means listening to dumb stories I don't care about? My brain starts yelling me to leave.

    It would be bearable if they didn't act like children (another coworker, a neurotypical one if you like, told me that).

  • No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world

    is this something you can say to a potential new manager? about giving report in a hospital when your shift ends

    No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world

    you are the democratically elected leader of a liberal democratic country which so far has had a good relationship with the US, how do you and your country survive 4 years of trump?

    No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world

    if you work night shifts, do you have a life? Are you healthy?

    No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world

    in 1994 Takeshi Kitano's Minnā yatteru ka! (Is everyone doing it?) we see a car dealer hitting a child's head with his parents present, but the parents don't react. Why is this funny in Japan?

    No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world

    do you give employers or managers a second chance?

    No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world

    I'm transferring to another ward within my hospital and the whole thing feels odd. How do I sort myself out?

    No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world

    how do I show a coworker that I care about her after her mother died?

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    what unbiased media sources do you use?

  • but don't you hate your life or makes it very miserable and tiring?

    I mean, expecting everyone to fuck me over would make me angrier I believe, like going to work and constantly ruminate about how every coworker and client is going to ruin my day.

    If you are a cynic, how do you don't ruminate?

    or is cynicism more 'no expectations no disappointments'?

  • Most of my co-workers don’t like me. My boss doesn’t even like me.

    if your boss makes clear he doesn't like you, why are you still working there and why don't you have plans to quit?

    I mean I don't understand why this is not a reason good enough to start looking for employment elsewhere. Don't you find it tiring? don't your coworkers and boss wear you down?

    If my boss makes clear he doesn't like me it's only a matter of time before he starts treating me differently, giving me the worse assignments, refusing to acknowledge me...

    This would affect me to the point of starting to hate that person.

  • I’m guessing you cursed out a coworker and not for the first time.

    Not what happened.

    there's a difference between cursing the poor work done by a coworker and cursing a person that was there and wasn't responsible for the dressing.

    I don't understand why you choose not to see the difference.

  • do you have any advice for me, now that I'm applying and might work elsewhere? Is there anything I could ask during interviewing to indicate I loathe drama, people full of themselves talking politics or conspiracies or openly discussing how vaginas look like?

  • yes, a very beautiful post.

    Lost_My_Mind: how do you do it? Because apparently I'm very thin skinned and overly political statements my coworkers blurt out trigger me or their boring marriage troubles bore me and I find myself trying to control me not to yell 'I don't give a f*ck about you, leave me alone', which of course earns me an invitation with management...