cheese_greater @ cheese_greater @lemmy.world

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I understand, more of an AUD dude and its welm-managed, especially since ive been low sugar

Didnt say everytime, maybe its just within a range of possibilities or probaballities or plausibillities

I can respect that

... Yes

Yas. Also arabesque But slowed way the fuck down

I'm looking for warmer if that makes sense but i will check it out nonetheless

What do you think of Moss Garden?

Hence the scarequotes

Trust me, we worry about shelter and food and electricity

• Father Ted

Sure it is. S'all whatever

All the best British stuff seems to flow out of Channel4

Love this for entirely different reasons

What "helped" the most thogh

I amended my response with this

It says that you feel impulsively desperate to end a combination of not great conditions and I would turn my attention to each of those on an individual basis to try and get them up to code in terms of tolerabillity

What think?

The whole "disclosing I'm going or want to kill myself", I don't know honestly how to "fix" other than finding a reason that trumps everything such that you are internally and externally motivated to mitigate that.

You might need to find or aquire that and make it part of your identity. I got several pets that I knew I could manage and take care of or that I would commit to become able to justify having a duty and stewardship over. Lots of people know they are my world and help provide that external reputational buffer to the suicidal inclinations I very rarely feel but dont express because thoughts dont a priori need to be vocalized or allowed to indiscriminately alter your trajectory.

But you need to know its not ok to leverage your mortality or well-being as a conversational regularity. Not even that its just wrong, its profounly dysfunctional and also inauthentic because you made such a point of specifying that it would never actually happen. Its bad to lie to yourself and/or others on the regular about anything, much less the ultimate thing like your life and safety. Not judging you and that may have been necessary at a previous point in your life or it might have been a flawed survival instinct but you need to find a way to negotiate with reality in other terms.

It says that you feel impulsively desperate to end a combination of not great conditions and I would turn my attention to each of those on an individual basis to try and get them up to code in terms of tolerabillity

Do you feel like its possible somehow to let people know boilerplate that you want to process what they've said so you can remove yourself from the immediate situation and stimuli and take your time to decide how you can more "professionally" respond to what they say without compromising your own wellness and needs?

Do you know what your needs are or what your values are such that these things are violating them to the extent you act out as a reaction?

In a post title, tho (Upvoted immediately ahhh)

I believe it I/srael never lies

Yay new (german compound) word