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They counted as in network so i got some money off. This isnt really helpful i just wanted to say i also hate it","removed":false,"published":"2025-05-29T09:18:33.956623Z","deleted":false,"ap_id":"https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/14631992","local":false,"path":"0.17013988","distinguished":false,"language_id":37},"creator":{"id":2086545,"name":"Zizzy","avatar":"https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/pictrs/image/440bcb44-34b9-4bc5-85a2-5abc34719bdd.webp","banned":false,"published":"2023-08-30T21:46:41.226656Z","actor_id":"https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/u/Zizzy","bio":"(she/her) im bored please post more memes","local":false,"deleted":false,"bot_account":false,"instance_id":31},"post":{"id":23121832,"name":"I have United Healthcare for insurance and I don't think they cover gender affirming care. How can I get HRT?","body":"My insurance sucks. I've just been denied coverage for:\n- Therapy (I appealed that)\n- Dental work (out of network even though they \"take my insurance\")\n- Planned Parenthood gender affirming care meeting\n\nFurthermore, my doctor's appointment with Doctor's on Demand was cancelled with no explanation (I was going to go with a primary care physician to ask some questions about HRT).\n\nUnited Healthcare sucks and I need help. I've heard of DIY HRT but it sounds sketchy to me. I'm willing to get there, but I'd like to exhaust all possibilities before I go down that path. I picked Planned Parenthood because they seem like a safe space. My current primary care physician is sort of conservative coded. He made some comments at our last appointment that made me feel like HRT would be hard to acquire under his care or - in the very least - awkward. \n\nI've looked at Plume and FolxHealth, which **say** they take my insurance, but I'm dubious. I feel like it'll be a bait and switch. They'll take my insurance, but I won't actually be covered and I'll end up paying an arm and a leg for boobs. \n\nAnyone else have United Healthcare and have navigated HRT. I pay a decent amount for medical coverage under a PPO (PPOs tend to have larger networks). I would have thought HRT was easy to acquire since it's - essentially - a cheap medicine. But I'm running into road blocks early on that are making it difficult to figure out what to do. Should I just go through a primary care physician? Just make another appointment with Doctors on Demand? Can I just jump to FolxHealth or Plume? Is requesting Gender Affirming Care via Planned Parenthood the wrong way to go about this?\n\nI hate insurance. 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A place where anybody can post memes that fit the vibe. \n\nWarning:\nWe have a tendency to post things that may at times come from a self-deprecating perspective or things that are funny coming from another queer person. This space will always be a safe place for transfems, non-binary people, people with a feminine gender expression (GNC or otherwise) or anybody else in the LGBT Community to come together and share about our experiences but we truly feel that laughing about the sometimes silly and embarrassing parts the queer experience can help bring us together. We never mean offense or harm in anything posted but rather they are satirical takes coming from queer people. \n\n**A note about 'Egging':**\nOur community is mostly made up of transfem individuals, and as such most memes posted will be posted with the intention of having a transfem perspective. However, regardless of gender identity, all feminine presenting individuals are welcome here. 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I also think comparing vote counts isnt a healthy outlook. If 60 people upvoted your post, and 90 people upvoted a meme, I understand the feeling of \"I put so much more effort into my meme specifically for here,* but 60 people still took the time to click the button that says you made their day better. And the mene with 90 votes? It was selectively taken to be posted here from presumably many more that werent as good, or it wouldnt be shared cross platforms. Not really fair. 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But one thing I really appreciate about memes, is that they transcend ownership. Theyre made to spread and go viral, with no intentions but to be funny (generally speaking of course). Its such a breath of fresh air in this world where everything is copyrighted, everything is there to make money or give someone fame. Memes themselves truly transcend our capitalist structure and I dont want that gone, either. 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Zizzy @ Zizzy @lemmy.blahaj.zone (she/her) im bored please post more memes Read more Posts 11Comments 230Joined 2 yr. ago

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