Hot take: your gender is irrelevant in 90% of situations
Should be irrelevant even more often.
For who? And what situations?
Hotter take: gender is irrelevant in 100% of situations. Your sex is sometimes relevant to your doctor and your sexual partner, and is irrelevant the rest of the time. Embracing atypical gender expressions gets in the way of discarding the whole outdated concept.
They don't think it be like it is, but it do, it do.
Other than peeing while standing being easier and my inability to give birth, I'm not sure I can come up with another 9.9% of the time to fill that gap.
op here, im bigender and this is how it be
I prefer the Popeye method: "I yam what I yam"
Ummm. He’s the inked sailor into spinach, right? Pretty sure it’s just “a yam, what a yam!”
Blahaj moment
cishet and still giving you critical support in your struggles against rigid gender role binarism 🫡
I appreciate the sentiment but why critical support though
Because aiming for body shots is for casuals
uhh yes actually regular support and critical i mean, you get both types!
Gender doesn't have to dictate your personality, your wants, needs and the way you dress. Stop thinking so much about your gender and just do whatever the fuck you want.
not complicated, this is just a meme about me being bigender. its really not something i think about as much as youre insinuating but acting like its not valid to find comfort in one's gender identity and comradery with others (the point of the meme) is kind of silly. this is 196 after all
Stop commenting on topics you clearly know nothing about, especially if it’s about an often discriminated against minority group.
You are a Schrodinger sexual?
i mean i identify as bisexual?? but idk i guess it would be schrodinger's sexual. im the cat in that box. nyan~
Peeps I am close to quitting Lemmy if I have to see another femboy picture. Wtf.
Skill issue tbh
If you really hate this kind of content this much, you should filter this instance, it's a you problem
Learn to block communities or GTFO
then quit? nobody's forcing you to be here
shut up dork
Nobody here sympathizes with you, just filter the instance
Korone is not a femboy
Bye, Felisha.
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"Depends on what day it is and which direction the wind is blowing" is how I like to describe my gender
Personally I don't engage with gender. Gender is only useful in changing peoples perceptions of yourself and I don't find people "lying" about my identity to my face to be an issue. I would identify as non binary or agender, but to do that would induce cognitive burden on others and make survay data more difficult, so I just don't. Life is too short to bother educating people you meet about how you understand your own gender.
Who am I, I'm fractal and my pronouns are whatever you are willing to calling me in this moment.
cool beans you do you but some people find comfort in such labels and thats valid just as your viewpoint is valid
Agreed, and I've seen cases where its helped people a lot, I'm just not one of those.
I think I'm the same, which I guess is a privileged position to be in
idk I feel its pretty useful in finding others like you? also how do you mean "make survey data more difficult"? like not inconveniencing others is commendable, but this sounds like internalized enby erasure?
also if you're not represented in survey data, it makes it that much easier for conservative proponents to point at gender surveys and say "well there's practically no one who doesn't fall in the binary buckets so there obviously must be something wrong with them and not the system"
as in, being yourself is the goal, but by being publicly open about it, you help others feel confident in pursuing what their authentic self is.
but again, you do you boo and I'm gonna keep being me by confusing all the guys in the gym lockers 🤪
idk I feel its pretty useful in finding others like you?
True but to me my gender is really not a factor in who I am, and while it might be a useful huistic for finding those who are similar to me, I can think of far better ones then that (e.g. hobbies, position on the asexuality spectrum)
Your statement about politicians is something I agree with, I'm more thinking about how identifying as an outlier is less useful then identifying as your birth gender when doing statistical analysis for polls with low sample size which I often participate in, especially when it makes no difference to me.
by being publicly open about it, you help others feel confident ...
That's a good point that I'll think on
but again, you do you boo and I'm gonna keep being me by confusing all the guys in the gym lockers 🤪
You too, I wish you luck with that.
Full on Madhyamika gender
I'm pro lgbt but all lolis must burn
Liberal boomers:
Why not
