My pet peeve is when people call (Disco and onward) "NuTrek" because that term was created to mock the "NuMetal" Kelvinverse films for their shallowness.
Now it's mostly used by people who complain about "wokeness" or "forced" diversity or what have you.
Send the folks complaining about wokeness in "NuTrek" over to my house and we'll watch the episode of TOS where the aliens hated each other because "they're black on the right side."
It also ruined the reveal about Adira’s nonbinary identity for me. I saw she
Look, I'm sorry that representation "ruined" a low-stakes interaction about preferred pronouns for you, but it would mean a lot if you could try a little harder.