Older Hexbears, what are some relatively obscure shows or movies that you remember your boomer parents being fond of that sort of defined and validated their attitudes and beliefs?
Younger Hexbears, if the spirit of boomerdom visited your household, boomer is more a state of mind than a specific birth year, so feel free to share your stories too.
There are some obviously better-known movies like Wall Street, but I remember an obscure one called "Let It Ride" that was played on tape over and over and over again so many times that it was like the theme song of the household for a while. It was a Richard Dreyfuss film about a gambling addicted asshole who seeks to triumph over his gambling problems by... gambling. Until he gets vibes about winning and then wins at gambling.
As a boomer bonus it portrays The Wife as a bad person because she's... upset at the protagonist's gambling addition. Oh yeah and she suspects he's eager to commit some adultery. How dare she... the way to show her is to have a much younger love interest that is totally into the protagonist because he starts to win at gambling!
For anyone that has had gambling-addicted boomer parents, the kind that thought a fun outing for the kids was going to the racetrack, or to Vegas, you may have similar stories of poverty perpetuated because your also liked to "Let It Ride."
The fact that Gone With The Wind has ever had any popularity at all is such a fucking travesty. From the very first opening scene (“puddin’ time!”) that movie is such a fucking disaster. And yes, my film buff mom was into it.
Parenti goes on a hilarious tangent about Out Of Africa in his lecture "Images Of Imperialism: Media, Myths, and Reality"... it's somewhere towards the middle/end when he's talking about colonial movies set in Africa.
Here's a link to an unofficial Spotify rehosting of the audio that I listened to it on:
Yeah I also listened to this one and it made me think about my mom and her yearning for foreign lands and Roberth Redford, she loved this movie and was in her own mind a leftist (liberal). Then again they all loved Kennedy too, Dynasty and Dallas were their favourite drama shows and Tintin the go to comic. All Western entertainment is mostly empire upholding, personally am pretty ready to burn my Donald Duck comics from my childhood because I can't unsee it anymore.
The entertainment we consume is absolutely not innocent.
Forrest Gump. Don't question anything, America's system is the best in the world, anyone who rocks the boat (especially a woman) is an uppity slut who deserves to die of AIDS. My parents aren't even that reactionary, but they worshipped this film and still do.
Dead poets society: celebrates individualism and self-discovery among a school full of Rich white boys with zero discussion of class/race/gender and their privileges due to it. Typical boomer ideals of liberalism, frontier individualism, etc etc.
fucking Little House on the Prairie - which for whatever godawful reason my mom used to throw on randomly whenever she was feeling nostalgic for her childhood. Shoutout Mary for letting her baby die in a fire, shoutout to Mary for skinny dipping with her friend and inadvertently causing them to drown - the memory of being like 7 and watching these episodes because mom put it on while she supervised us doing our homework is
Funnily enough though, while my mom would throw on Little House - my dad's go-to shows were Tom Baker Doctor Who and/or early Star Trek episodes so clearly there is some sort of fucked up balance between my parents' level of boomerism
My mom was really into the Left Behind movies, and it really enforced her evangelical beliefs and doomsday beliefs and like. I'm really happy I hardly remember a thing about those movies. She was also into like God's Not Dead and old The Stand as well.
for sure. before my mom died this year, I was really worried of her stumbling upon QAnon. thankfully she didn't, but it probably wouldn't of taken too much. considering she thought Obama was the antichrist for a while, until for some reason, last year she thought Macron was the antichrist. and of course she really loved trump
A lot of old 60s classics. John Wayne movies. For more chud adjacent I saw all the dirty Harry movies at a pretty young age. Watched Ben Hur and Planet of the Apes when I was pretty young too. Antony and Cleopatra with Liz Taylor. The Vikings with Tony Curtis and Kirk Douglas and Earnest Borgnine. That movie is still pretty good. Nice revenge arc. Edit: oh and the Blues Brothers. Even as a kid I knew it was awesome to see two misfits drive a beaten up cop car through a column of neo nazis.
For boomer TV shows I grew up with my dad singing the themes of Petticoat Junction, Addams Family, F Troop, old TV from before my time.
it's really hard to explain what a huge deal "the big chill" was to them... Ive never seen it but I would imagine it validates their turn towards materialism and such.... Forrest Gump was also a huge deal in a similar way about 10 years later and I think a simpleton wandering through life and just happening to win at every turn really resonated with them
on tv, I think "thirtysomething" may have occupied the same mental space as "the big chill" but idk, never watched it.
if you ask me what their cinematic epitaph will be, it will be Peter Fonda in Easy Rider saying "we blew it, billy."
My mom loved "little house on the prairie" which, I admit, I rarely paid much attention to, but the name of it kiiiiiinda sums a ton of stuff up. My mom loved all those westerns on tv back then like "gunsmoke." I found them boring, but, you know.
She also loved "MASH" and I fucking hated it.
I've still never watched any of these as an adult.
You should look into MASH a bit. For it's time it was almost progressive, I'd say. Liberal, sure, but not so bad. Iirc there was a character that was into cross dressing too?
My dad was really into Gran Turismo when I was a kid.
He also religiously watched the Red Green Show but I think he was too dumb to really understand that the show was, at times, making fun of guys like him.
My parents were constantly watching Come and See, which isn't surprising. They were obsessed with every small victory the USSR had against reactionary forces.
Just kidding. This is probably what my kids will say about me when they're talking to their fellow conscripts in the Burger King-Papa John's war.
Edit: Thank God, my parents almost never watch the same thing twice. It's not obscure, but they're most influential media is probably the NFL. Particularly for my mom, they are firmly rooted in her brain. Which is weird, because after decades of watching football she still doesn't know the rules. Still, she refers to the NFL as "the league." I hate it.
Once she had a moment of clarity where she realized the news was bullshit. She couldn't understand why some NFL scandal was being ignored by the sports news. I tried to explain that the week of inane, breathless news between each game was just a commercial for the NFL and that the NFL itself was just a commercial for the US military, and all I accomplished was reaffirming that I'm an idiot.
All I can think of when I hear about Tyler Perry movies is that Boondocks episode about him and how all his movies have the same basic plot. From my limited viewing of them, I can't say that the Boondocks was wrong...
It's kind of on the nose to pick a televangelist talk show, but still, 700 Club was on our TV entirely too much. Song of the South and Gone With the Wind were also cited for "How the South used to be"
my dad loved MAS*H which is such a liberal show with all of it's messaging. unfortunately he died when i was in middle school so i didnt really get to dig into that. It made me watch the show though and while i probably didnt understand everything i think the messages got through to me too. I have watched it through several times as an adult.
oh yea, that one definitely stuck with me. watching it as an adult is wild to me though cause my dad was maybe somewhat conservative? i kinda don't know, he wasn't super outspoken about much, but all the anti war and anti racism stuff in MAS*H makes me think he wasnt a total conservative idiot. All i know is he voted for Ross Perot, which sounds kinda crazy until you see all the liberal aspects of his policies.
my mom unfortunately has Catholic/Trump brainrot and she married a guy with at least Catholic/conservative non-Trumper brainrot. It's been a real downgrade from what was essentially an agnostic dad.
My dad was really into James Bond, Dragnet, and Hawaii Five-O which had an effect on his politics. He also loved Get Smart and somehow watched The Prisoner in the 70s(?????) despite never setting foot in the UK, so I guess it wasn't completely bad.
I guess he's just really into spy TV shows and police procedurals lol
It's a big deal in Aus, but The Castle might not be well known elsewhere.
On the surface It's an ode to the dirt poor little Aussie battler keeping the government from destroying his community to build an airport runway...until you realise they're actually fairly rich tradies larping at true poverty, all their friends are some kind of lower PB with hardly a worker in sight, and to them success is becoming feel good small business tyrants.
Exactly the false consciousness that Howard used to turn Australia into the hyper-racist faux-true blue ocker hellworld it is today.
My parents weren't into that sort of thing, but if you want a hilarious boomer esque B-Movie I highly recommend movies by James Glickenhaus. I think he might be one of my favourite directors of all time, and he only made about 4 actual movies.
They're pure right wing fantasy, the acting is terrible, the dialogue is hilarious, but then out of nowhere there's just the most ludicrous action scene you've ever seen with notes of fantastic cinematography. I find them so charming. They just come together so well.
In order I'd recommend:
The Soldier. It's like American James Bond. The most ridiculous of them all, so far that he almost seems self aware. USA works with the Israelis to stop some guy blowing up all the oil in the middle east with a nuke. At one point they ramp a car over the Berlin wall. As a bonus, the sound track is by Tangerine Dream, making the movie the first ever ambient action film.
Shakedown - in the UK it was called Blue Jean Cop. The movie opens with a young Sam Elliot in a trashy cinema, falling asleep to a scene on the movie screen from The Soldier, where The Soldier does a 360 Uzi noscope on a ski ramp. The action scenes in this one are an absolute masterclass, and the come out of nowhere. Glickenhaus even predicts 9/11 at one point.
The Exterminator - Porn tier acting in this one. A traumatised Vietnam vet goes around killing gang members and pedophiles with a flamethrower. The lead character is so uncharismatic that he's perfectly casted as the most unremarkable man ever. In one scene where he shoots up a party (that only 5 people are attending), some classic 80s pop song is playing the whole time. I don't remember which song, but it's absolutely hilarious.
McBain - Don't watch this one. Unless you're craving more Glickenhaus. This one stars a young Christopher Walken as some guy who stages a coup in some Latin American country... Except he seems to show up after every firefight is over and never really does anything? It's actually hilarious once you notice it, but it's just too long to be a proper Glickenhausian romp. It opens with bamboo cage fighting in Vietnam, and in the middle of it there's an awesome speedboat scene where quite simply, dudes are rocking. Otherwise, eh.
God, I've waited so long to put my love for those movies into words.
So my dad’s all time favorite movie was The Sting with Newman and Redford. To be honest it’s actually a pretty great movie, so I can’t really criticize that. “Chariots of Fire” was another one my parents liked and I never saw it so I’m not sure how terrible it is. Plan 9 from Outer Space was another one they loved, and I can’t criticize that either for obvious reasons, but maybe watching that kinda stuff is a small part of why I’m so weird.
I guess I should mention my parents were also in an evangelical borderline cult and didn’t watch too much popular media since they considered it “worldly”. They would ironically sometimes let us watch very adult films like Predator or Robocop, and I dunno if it’s because they were clueless or just cared way more about sex than graphic violence.
I also remember watching some weird religious shit like “The God Makers” which talks all about how Mormons believe Jesus and Satan were brothers and other stuff that makes them look bad, which there’s plenty of.
EDIT: Also forgot to mention UHF, and now that I think about it they actually had not bad taste in films overall.
The Big Chill: people with values all end up dead before their time, so just sell out as hard and as fast as possible so you can gratify yourself and make a bunch of money.
if you feel like a complete piece of shit, just listen to the music of the 60s and sing along to feel like you give a fuck about anything real and you'll feel better.
My Parents once made me watch The Game. It's one of those movies where everything is supposed to be super mysterious and relies on the spectacular twist ending while also including a ton of expensive but boring action sequences. It's about a billionaire who has some personal issues and his brother stages a huge conspiracy (that's the revealing twist at the end) to make him value life again and rediscover his good side. The whole thing is incredible stupid. Especially the ending, where he shoots someone with a gun that he thought was fake and therefore tries to kill himself by jumping off the rooftop only to be caught by a giant air pillow that was placed there by his brother. When he emerges from the pillow, everyone involved in the conspiracy, including the guy he thought he shot, is there to wish him a happy birthday. He now is a better man and the actress who fake falls in love with him during the conspiracy is now really in love with him.