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I think we should consider the feelings of Hexbear users when posting or commenting.

If you think they'll dislike it, it's probably a good post.

Hexbear REALLY dislikes my compilation of their queerphobia at !dronerights@lemm.ee
- I mentioned the time hexbear's admin called the (trans) admin of blahaj.zone (the trans instance) "transphobic" in another thread once. Some hexbear dipshit then "named and shamed" me as a transphobe.
  
  They're loud, obnoxious idiots -- nothing more.
  
  the user you are replying to was banned for transphobia, they were dismissing the existence of enbys as their own gender. They're an insane troll.
  
  Enbies are not our own gender. We are thousands of genders.
  
  https://lemm.ee/post/12811454
  
  I wonder if it's the same hexbear admin who banned me from the entire site after I called them on being in support of crypto, then made a post-hoc justification for. You know, that sham right wing capitalism alternative that pedos use to buy illegal material with.
  
  Regardless, I made a comment saying "Stop working, 'work will set you free' is a nazi phrase" and they removed it for "Godwins Law" so obviously I'm not missing out because I have literally never seen anyone outside of a nazi misuse Godwin's Law that egregiously.
  
  this sounds weird to me because to my knowledge hexbear hates crypto, I feel like I'm missing context
  
  Times like this that the public modlog comes in handy.
  
  screenshots
  
  Posting history is public too and gives a more clear picture of what was happening.
  
  the person you were talking to never said crypto was good
  
  /u/Omega_Haxors you seem cool when I see you around, and I understand getting heated or defensive during an argument and saying some regrettable stuff, but it is kinda frustrating to see you misrepresent what happened a year after the fact, in a thread like this of all places, when hexbear users are already widely demonized and misrepresented.
  
  Well now you understand why I feel so demonized and misrepresented. Hexbear users (well, most of them) will always be cool in my mind but the institution can burn for how they treated me.
  
  I don't really think telling someone to kill themselves is ever justified, and that's reason enough for me to think you deserved the ban.
  
  https://lemmy.ml/comment/5193303
  
  That is how they framed it, but it was not what I intended.
  
  I wasn’t telling them to KYS, they just interpreted it that way because that’s genuinely what you lot think about people you don’t like.
  
  Look friend, when multiple people are telling you it comes off as telling someone to commit suicide, maybe you should take a moment to introspect about your choice of phrasing. Maybe you did mean it, maybe you didnt. Either way it looks like you did and you can't deflect blame just because you had a bad choice of words
  
  Hexbear is full of transphobic trans people and Blahaj's admin is also a transphobic trans person.
- Permanently Deleted
  
  DroneRights (me) was banned for saying gender neutral pronouns exist. Because Hexbear thinks gender neutral pronouns are transphobic.
  
  no you're making shit up, look at the goddamn modlog
  
  Removed Comment "They" is a non gendering pronoun. If you use they/them, you'll never misgender anyone, but you'll also never gender anyone correctly either. Some people are okay with not being gendered and some people aren't. You should respect their wishes once you've heard them, but I don't believe you have any obligation to check them in advance.
  by DroneRights [it/its] reason: enbyphobia
  
  This is pretty unambiguously a log of me saying gender neutral pronouns exist and the admins taking issue with that.
  
  https://lemm.ee/post/12809875
- Dear readers, please take what this user says with a grain of salt as it was also banned from blahaj for personal attacks against Ada among toxic behavior in general. It was also banned from hexbear for having problematic views regarding the ungendering caused by they/them-ing all people with no regard for one's stated preferred pronouns.
  
  screenshots
  
  As for the pictures you have of me on Blahaj, they are perfectly accurate summaries of my views on Ada. Yes, you are 100% correct that Ada banned me for daring to disagree with her and to call out her transphobic behaviour.
  
  As for Hexbear you are 100% incorrect about my views. I do not they/them anyone I know to have a different pronoun preference, and indeed you've taken a screenshot of me saying that you can't gender someone correctly with they/them. You will find many instances of me referring to people with their chosen pronouns on !dronerights@lemm.ee . Your misrepresentation of my views is slander, entirely unbased in fact and directly contradicted by the evidence that you yourself provided. If you are not lying on purpose, then I have the deepest sympathies for the teacher who tried to teach you reading comprehension.