Ruleship ended with Lemmy

Since lemm.ee is about to shut down I also want to take my leave. But whilst I am very supportive of lgbtqia+, and have friends who are part of it, I myself am not so idk if I belong in the blahaj family (same thought when I joined Lemmy back in the day). Like I feel like I should leave that comfy space to you folks since you deserve it and that I should stick to a more general instance <3

(Also I have seen a post once where you are just allowed to be called ally by someone from the movement and not call yourself it so I stick to the rule and instead use the word "supportive")

TL;DR: I am curious about your opinion if lame normies like me belong there and I am fine with the outcome as long as we're cool cuz I luv u folks! :3

I like the many features of Piefed, but the lack of mobile apps and good clients (such as tesseract) is a deal breaker for me. And the Lemmy backend is written in rust, so it's very fast, as opposed to python, though I understand why one would use python instead of rust.

I hope Lemmy catches up with the features. I'm not fully comfortable with donating to the devs because they run tankie authoritarian-bootlicking instances, and are transphobic.

Why, what did I miss?