Something a lot of people especially new parents forget about are your local libraries.
I purchased too many books even second hand instead of using my library that has an amazing kids section. Tons of audio books and ebooks with apps for your phone/tablet.
Even with no kids it’s still an amazing place and resource.
Piggy backing off of this comment. Most libraries offer more than just books. CDs and digital music aside, they also check out things. My library has a telescope that can be checked out for free as well as state parks and aquarium passes. Another one has a 3d printer available that lets you print at 10cents per minute. Libraries are incredible.
If you visit the Washington DC area, all of the Smithsonian museums and the National Zoo are free all the time. Want to pop in and see the the Hope diamond (National Museum of Natural History) or Dorothy's ruby slippers (National Museum of American History) you can and not feel bad if you don't want to stay. Some specialty exhibits have timed tickets, but those are free too.
You can camp for free in national forests. Just drive out to the woods and set up a tent. Some rules apply (For example, in Mount Baker-Snoqualmie National Forest, you can't create new campsites or roads, or clear ground by cutting vegetation.)
Wait this is actually true? I always felt like it changes from forest to forest, and I usually avoid anywhere it doesn't explicitly say so. Gotta do some more research I guess.
Also in the high country. I frequently drive up into the mountains in the middle of nowhere, hike as far as I can that day, camp, wake up, and hike as far as I can again before camping again. Backpacking is a very edifying activity for me, and the further I can get from civilization, the better it is.
Depends, this isn’t universally true. Some popular areas (near national parks, etc) have restrictions on them. But otherwise it’s usually fair game. So worth double checking but it’s often true.
BLM land is the same way though I have been shot at by rednecks there so keep in mind some areas can be a bit lawless.
Yes, if you want alcohol in Minnesota, find a liquor store. You'll get the good stuff there. The craft beer scene is top notch too, everywhere you go there's at least half a dozen local brews in every liquor store.
Interesting! Would the retail staff be pissed at you, or they won't care if they aren't home? For example, I've read-it (hint hint) that going shopping on Christmas day is a dick move? Is this true?
The USA is huge, and individual states are huge. San Francisco and Los Angeles are both in California, but you're not going to do a day trip from one to the other.
Our beer is great! Probably stay away from the big brands (unless Sierra Nevada is considered a big brand --- they're still great IMHO). Try to find something from a local brewery --- it can be hit or miss, but more fun than finding one you like and sticking to it.
We have a lot of social services that aren't necessarily through the federal government. Food banks come to mind --- some are "proof of assistance required," others are open to anyone who feels they need the service. There is not afaik a single interface for navigating these services though, so it can be a real pain, from what I've heard. But services often do exist, if you have the time to track them down.
Libraries! Free wifi is common.
If you don't like it here, try a different part of the country. Rural town in the south is completely different than a "blue city."