A lot of "sexy" music is just whatever beats and stuff. I'm looking for music with sounds of people fucking, especially women, or with explicit lyrics about having sex. Stuff that will really get me turned on while listening to it.
Hard mode: I'm a lesbian, so if it's a guy singing or talks about men too much that's a turn off for me ☹️
Stoker Ace by Lovage. It's much different vibe - jazzy and down tempo. I could see it as a break between more intense sets. It's got a sexy female singer talking as though she's a cat with a french accent.