2y ago

What are you into sexually that you get judged for the most?

No judgement here please! Everyone should be free to speak their truth.

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I have been judged for being into CNC, DDLG and even for enjoying being choked 😭
Sadly this judgement is mostly from fellow women who assume a woman couldn't possibly be into these things by herself and that it has to mean a man forced me to pretend I am into them. I think this is a stupid take that takes away from the autonomy of women.
Also someone legit kink shamed me about DDLG saying that people who are into that are either pdophiles or enabling pdophilia. And that with the knowledge/specification that all parties involved are consenting adults, and they even continued insisting on this judgment after I also specified that there are no other inappropriate power dynamics/imbalances at play. That really pissed me off.
- What are those acronyms? CNC stands for something very non-sexy in my world.
  
  Are you involved in machining work? I always think that first when I see CNC
  
  That's what everyone thinks of because that's what it is.
  
  😂 I'm not sure how many random people on the street would know about machining acronyms either tho
  
  Hmm, what's more common, machining or rape kinks?
  
  Probably rape kinks, but there's more communication about Computer Numerical Control machining hahaha
  
  Computer numeric control. Quite a turn on for me.
- Many people just dont understand certain kinks. Choking makes me have the biggest orgasms.
  
  I had such a hard time with choking. I'm too afraid I would crush their windpipe, when I was in my 20's. I only really did the choking when she wanted my belt to do it herself. Self choking with a belt is a good way to die.
  Now I have control and understand how to safely cut off blood supply and not totally close the airway.
  But it's been a decade since I was with a woman last.
  
  Don't push the windpipe at all! You should be applying pressure to the blood vessels behind and to the sides of the windpipe.

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