If you found your SO others AI porn would it offend you if the their fantasy was nothing like you?

That's interesting; I had a conversation once with a friend whose SO was addicted to porn about how she would feel if she discovered that he had AI deepfakes of her. She was very clear that she would see it as a huge relief and a compliment, even; obviously a large part of the hurt she was feeling had to do with the betrayal of having her SO lusting after other women. Otherwise, I don't see how the question is any different for AI porn than other porn; the unique thing about AI is that it's possible to make porn about one's spouse.