Weekly Discussion Thread- February 7th

I hope she knows most people don’t watch her because she interesting, it’s because her life is a shit show lol without the drama there’s nothing … she’s not funny like she thinks she is..
- She picks the lamest things on the internet to copy.

With all that money she scams from her followers why can’t she buy some fuckin curtain rods ?? Drives me crazy 😜

I got it in… 🤗
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She makes so sense what soooo ever! He’s got his shit together but then she’s saying she doesn’t want to put any effort in… like wtf so then you never want a relationship because it’s 50/50 .. you don’t take take take take and never give 🤦🏼‍♀️
- I knew it wouldn't last. Never does, she's too psycho. She says she's an independent woman but in reality it was probably him who didn't want her, or caught onto her lies and scams.
  
  She's so independent that on the first (lunch) date with this guy she gladly accepted a pair of earrings, 3 boxes of chocolates, and a teddy bear and made a video showing it all off; more than likely he also paid for lunch. She's so independent that she needs to dry beg for people to buy her Christmas gifts and craft resin and supplies off her Amazon Wishlist. She's so independent that she had to get her mother to buy her a $1700 cell phone. She's so independent that she tells her following to send her EMTs and has her email address in her bio. She's so independent that she needed to setup a GoFundMe to pay her bills and buy food after she got fired for disclosing medical information about one of her clients and filming another, but then used the money to purchase a new sofa set. She's so independent that she needs to 'hustle' and resort to holding illegal lotteries on her TikTok live and then scam the participants by changing the rules mid-game when she realizes she's not going to make as much money as she had anticipated. She's so independent that she was on welfare and at the same time running illegal 50/50 draws, not reporting the money, not giving the winners their portion, and then blamed the trolls after she got caught and had to pay back the money to welfare. She's so independent that she missed her car payments then put the dealership on blast after they wouldn't give her an upgrade because she didn't qualify for it. She's so independent that she couldn't afford the cost of eyeglasses so she put the place on blast saying that she thought she was going to be murdered in the back room and that she was keeping an eye on the window washers to save her.
- She's claiming that he judges her for the shows she watches on TV, that he needs to be fixed and that he doesn't have his shit together? Like what? lol
- I swear from her blabbing, I literally hear her saying … he’s not as good looking as I want even tho he has his shit together. Walking piece of contradiction!!

How many chances is this girl going to get … I can’t wait until it all blows up… now that’s she’s got a boyfriend in the same facility lol the drama is going to be unreal 😂 how does she think that’s even a good idea .. especially with her track record 😂 recipe for DISASTER!! And she clearly is embarrassed about him… when you first meet someone you want to show them off lol she just wants to hide him 😂 you know if he was hot his face would be all over her tiktok 😂 just like when she thought black ninja was hot she couldn’t shut up about him 😬 truth sucks but it’s clear …
- When shit hits the fan with their relationship she’s going to not only blast him to everyone but she’s also going to use it as a way to not work. Cause she won’t be working with her ex that’s for sure! Why her followers feel the need to support this girls bad decisions is beyond me…
  
  I'm here for the shitshow...it's inevitable with her. Just a matter of time.
- Oh ya, I saw that live with the Black Ninja. Poor guy, thinking he was coming in to chat with a 'friend'. It went south quickly. I thought most places of employment had something against employees dating each other? Or maybe that was like a supervisor and subordinate. I am just waiting for the shit to roll cause I will be watching! 🤣
  
  Her sexual advances towards him were crazy and if the genders were reversed they'd be calling Crystal a predator but because she's a woman she gets a pass. He was so uncomfortable during that interaction.... asking if he's slept with any of his followers. Gross.

Another video with her taking a s#*%! It's absolutely disgusting. She has no shame, and is so cringe. Why she thinks it's entertaining is very juvenile. I completely get why she has zero friends or boyfriend's. Also, anyone notice she gets hardly any likes now? It went from thousands to maybe a few hundred. Ouch
- I know, I have to agree with you, it’s just gross. Nothing is private with her and I don’t understand how she thinks it is either bit funny.
- I swear people only watch for the shit show
  
  No pun intended?
- I don’t know why she thinks sitting on the toilet is entertaining let alone letting us know that the reason she’s sitting on a toilet is because she’s taking a shit. It’s not normal in my opinion. It’s un classy! And as you said, juvenile!
- No self-respect for sure. I’m baffled at how she still has kids. I don’t have kids, but what would children services think if they knew she interacted with her kids.

A few days ago they were growing old together and he was going to be giving her suppositories, but today she’s a strong, independent woman.

Let's start with the denial of who her bf is, these are the same glasses frames yet Crystal wants to deny that she's never met this man in her life. Meanwhile, he's liking all of her photos on Facebook.

Crystal Babin be acting like it's a crime to talk about her on the internet. It almost took me out when she said that she doesn't trash talk people or mention names. 😂💀
- She’s the talk all over town not just the internet , she’s a known trouble maker . And as far as she doesn’t trash talk people is hilarious cause that’s all she does , that’s why she has the followers she has because of all the Drama . Black Ninja did absolutely nothing to her but yet look at the drama she started with him 🤬
  
  She also said buddy got her to shave his back and she called him out by name and posted text messages between the two and even said some foul things about a woman he was seeing. She had the nerve to film the phlebotomist yesterday when she went to urgent care, and then posted the video on TikTok. She filmed the allergy specialist and posted that. Didn't she also film the dentist and the office told her that she wasn't allowed back if she had the camera with her? So she thinks that she's allowed to do all of these things but it's a crime when someone says anything about her? Give me a break!

She’s got a new video up and it looks like her and the man may no longer be together as she’s too independent to be in a relationship.
- *****A.k.a he's a loser, not attractive, lives with his mom, and she knows she will get made fun of for it. She also probably twisted the truth- he probably caught onto her manipulation and lies.
- I saw that too! I thought maybe she is saying all of this because he isn’t as nice looking as her other boyfriends. I don’t know the others tho.

Reasons Crystal gave for "breaking up" (apparently them being together was never official).
She's way too independent and it took years for her to become that way since having left an abusive marriage (even tho she had an affair with a married man, got pregnant for him, wanted him to leave his wife for her, then aborted the baby when he didn't).
She lost her identity, it took a while for her to get her identity back, but she's unsure if she even had one to begin with.
She doesn't know who she is because she doesn't do anything other than work a lot and be a mom, therefore she can't offer herself to anybody.
She's trying to find herself and she spent a lot of time working on herself and becoming a better person.
She wants to focus on her career.
She has a fear of commitment.
There are red and pink flags.
She knows she's not perfect, but there was an 'ick' and now she can't go back so she said, 'peace out.'
She doesn't want to have to change him. She picks at the stupidest shit (her words), but doesn't want him to have to change who he is for her.
She doesn't want to have to answer to anybody and doesn't want to have to talk to someone before bed.
She doesn't know why, but says she knows that we know what she's talking about.
- Omg 😂 the last bullet point 😂
- She didn’t have all these issues when the married guy was on the scene, she had no problem being a mistress in secrecy. She had no problem accepting his money, his gifts and his offer to move her close to him so that they could raise the baby together. She saw dollar signs with that guy because he had a good job and was “her type”.
  New guy on the scene is practically a virgin and has never had a girlfriend but he works a similar job to her. He might not be making bank but he must have a huge savings account. She’s got no problem going on dates with him, accepting gifts from him and having him over at her house. She’s a broke bitch right? Ain’t no way she’s going Dutch. What she doesn’t like is the fact that he’s not attractive and he lives with his mom. She is using this guy for money and it’s so so plane to see. She hasn’t begged for money since he’s come into the picture…hmm I wonder why? lol
  
  The married man never wanted anything to do with her, other than use her for a quick piece. They only met up a handful of times. She made it out to sound like they had this deep, long love affair but it was far from the truth. as soon as he caught on to her lies he peaced out. He never intended on leaving his wife or having a relationship with her- she made that all up. He also never "convinced her" to have an abortion. All that girl does is lies.

Did anyone see the video she posted about an hour ago? Being hyper independent, not knowing if she truly wants a relationship? As soon as I watched this, immediately I thought she doesn’t want this dude because he isn’t what she believes she ‘could’ pull. Smh.
- Yet she accepted multiple dates and gifts from him! I think she’s getting tired of working and she now needs an excuse to get out of it. She will say they broke up and she can’t be around him anymore so that’s why she quit
  
  This girl is filled with more drama than a soap opera. I agree with you 100%.

The amount of content she steals from other TikTok creators or from Facebook is astounding. She doesn’t have a single original thought and the fact that she calls herself a “content creator” is such a joke.
- The videos of her lip-synching is so bad. She looks like a complete fool, with her stupid faces that she makes. It's more than apparent her mom did drugs while pregnant with her.
  Her so-called content is pathetic, i guess it's all she has to offer since she has no life or friends. 🤣
- Same goes with her jewelry

Why does she always blame things on a abusive marriage? She did the same thing when she got fired a few months ago for disclosing one client’s medical information and for filming another. In her GoFundMe she said that she was in an abusive marriage 5 years prior, I’m guessing to gain sympathy. So much for being a strong, independant woman. 🙄

I thought she wasn't going to film her son anymore? And yet every other video he is in. Notice how her son Tyler isn't around much at all anymore? Nor does she film him. I sus he's not a fan of hers either.
- Right? She says she wasn't going to post him anymore because she claimed that a troll added him on Roblox, but then immediately goes out and buys a costume and has him film a TikTok video. Any good mother would have followed through on that 💯. It's pretty bad that she's more concerned about her social media clout than she is about her own child's safety. I'm thinking she made up a fake account herself and added him, or she got one of her minions to do it and had them pretend they were a troll. Sure look at all the other fake accounts she created and used to harass people. Once it works its way through the courts all of her devices will get subpoenaed and they'll find all of that information anyway.

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- Hello! I’m responding to everything because I have something to say and I’m learning how all of this works. 😊
  
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New video of her apparently working all day yesterday and staying at work overnight because of the storm and Working till 9 o’clock tonight means those dogs have been alone for almost 48 hours with no fresh water and no food and Stella in a soiled diaper.
- I was thinking the same thing... and now she wants to breed them and have puppies? Insane. The poor things

Maybe if she wasn’t down rolling around on a dirty floor full of dog urine and feces she wouldn’t be sick. She said her youngest child was sick again as well. She was about to say he had a sinus infection but stopped herself and just said he was sick; I guess she remembered the time her other child had a chest infection and she gave him a couple of antibiotics she had stashed away and told him to take one in the evening before bed and one in the morning and that would clear it up. 🤦‍♂️
- Imagine being a "health care worker" and giving someone else's prescription drugs to your kids. She should know better. Also- you're supposed to take the antibiotics for the entire duration, so she shouldn't have had any spare laying around. How irresponsible. I really don't know how any employer would hire her.
  
  It really does boggle the mind! And sure the most recent employer not only hired her, but reached out to her and offered her the job knowing full well she had just been fired for breach of confidentiality! 🤯

Newest video complaining about having to work. Yet she’s such an advocate for the elders she works with! Take your job seriously babin
- She don’t be listening during the meetings when they’re talking about the rules and regulations and then she goes and does things like filming and posting the residents on social media…not that you should need to have someone to tell you that you’re not allowed to do that, it’s common sense. It just proves that it’s all a big joke to her. She shouldn’t be allowed to be working there, or anywhere there’s elders involved for that matter.

I think she was on something last night by the looks of her eyes.

She mentioned she doesn’t talk to her siblings anymore , is there anyone on her that knows them . Are they like her also ?
- I know her father, I’ve worked with him before, hard worker. I mentioned Crystal a couple times to him and he’s like oh that one 😂 he thinks how she acts is fucked, just like her mom he says.
- I don’t know her sister on a personal level but she did talk their grandmother into a $100,000 loan for a home years ago. I’ve heard that she’s mellowed out over the years and has her life together. I don’t think she speaks to their mother anymore

Why would she have to take a shower at work ? lol
- She was probably screwing her new man the night before and stayed at his house. Those poor dogs don’t matter to her.
  
  Her last video, she’s crying with no tears… strange …

So who believes this woman has a job?
- I believe she may have a job however I do not believe she’s working 12 hour shift nor is she working I believe she said it was seven days in a row.

You realize everyone can see that you're just making accounts and posting replies to your own cringy nonsense, right??
- Exposing a scammer isn't nonsense, she's a notorious scammer in her area even going as far as scamming her Grandmother who then had to file for bankruptcy.
- What do you mean? This community was moved from Reddit (https://old.reddit.com/r/crystal_babin1985/comments/1ik27cs/we_are_moving_to_lemmy/)
  To be honest, it's one of the most detailed guides I've seen in a while.
  If you don't like the content, block the community and move on.
  
  This guide got me here! Well written.>
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