If Israel de-occupies Palestinian and Lebanese land, stops blockading Gaza, stops blowing up chunks of it's neighbors, then it removes any moral grounds for them to continue fighting Israel. Instead we're to believe Israel is the defender when they've occupied their neighbors for 50+ years.
All of them. If you want to compare killing civilians there's a graphic around here showing that Israel has killed far more, every year. Of course I wish they'd target active military and civilians involved specifically in Israel's MIC. But if Israel's strikes on hospitals are justified then so are the ones you're worried about. You can't have it both ways.
So, would you kill every single Israeli civilian if they were unable to leave Israel? Because that's what Hamas and Hezbollah want to do, with the assistance of Iran.
Destroying Israel refers to the end of the Settler Colonialist Regime, which includes the Apartheid and Occupations. And instead a Regime Change in Palestine that has equal rights for both Israelis and Palestinians. It does not refer to the ethnic cleansing of all Israelis, that kind of mentality of 'Transfer' is central to Zionism, not Anti-zionism.