It's toooooo brriiighhhtt
It's toooooo brriiighhhtt
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That's the annoying part. It's not performative.
From my perspective, it's like most people just mindlessly stumble through the world how they've been taught. They turn on lights not because they need it, but because it's normal. They trust the label on the back of products over their own lived experience of using it.
I like the dark. I like the sun. I like being able to see. I see just fine in the dark. Excess artificial lights make it so I see less. This isn't a me problem, this is you projecting
I'm not being weird or edgy. I'm not inviting you to comment, I'm being comfortable. I'm so tired of pretending, it's fucking exhausting. I don't need to come into the light, I want to be acceped as I am, not what you think I should be. If you ask genuinely wanting to understand, I'd explain that I like it. I'm so tired of explaining myself to people asking "why are you sitting in the dark?"
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It's really not about being "the weird kid", some of us just legitimately have light sensitivity. Me and all my siblings have it, cause my mom has it. My dad is the only one who likes bright lights and the rest of us prefer darker lighting. Well I do like the sun, so not always, but most indoor lighting feels way brighter than sunlight and feels strange on my eyes.
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People: just trying to live their lives
This dickhead: "you should be ashamed for being different. Maybe if you were normal the world would be a better place"
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You're completely misreading this because you're assuming our brains work the same as neuro-typical brains when it comes to status seeking. The vast majority of autistic people couldn't care less about asserting a "cool flex". The whole point of posts like this is just to say, "this thing that you see as different is because we're different then you NTs and this is why". Being different is only inherently cool if you're an NT. We NEVER win that game, so we don't play it.
In other words, this post is saying "don't tread on me because I'm different than you. There's a reason I do it this way." Your response is essentially "you're actually just like us, so you should just assimilate and learn to be like us. StOp bEinG So EDgy!"
Also, this IS "the weird kid coming out into the light". You just don't like that what that looks like isn't what you expected or, apparently, wanted. No, the world wouldn't be a better place if everyone just saw it the way you do. That's an incredibly immature and self-centered perspective.
If it seems like I'm irked by your comment, it's because I am. This is the exact BS NT people are always trying to cram down our throats without realizing how harmful it is to us. Just let people be who they are. We don't need the entire human race to look and function in pure homogeneous order.
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I know it took pain to write that, and thankfully the original comment that inspired it has been removed, but I wanted to thank you for writing your piece. From start to finish, you nailed your point, and I feel personally vindicated by reading your words. I've had to make the same argument so many times, for so many people who can't seem to comprehend that my differences aren't deliberate choices. In fact, sometimes I don't even realize I'm being "different."
Anyway, I just wanted to let you know that your comment resonated with me strongly. I saved it for the next time I encounter this sort of situation, because you phrased things so perfectly that I don't think I can improve on it. Thank you.
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"The world only exists in the way I experience it, and everyone else is a 'weird kid'."
- You
Perhaps you should realise that it's not all about people trying to be weird, sometimes it's just ordinary life. Nothing needs fixing, no one needs to get better.
Maybe your comment was bait, but still needs saying.
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